I Need Some Advice On Unrequited Love!
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c0lchester
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if buddy's not self confident: de-value homeboy so he becomes vunerable. lower his self-esteem, people with low selfesteem are easy to bed. not an honerable tactic but I know it works on girls
smokey2117
Member
Stay friends with him. You never know what'll come in future time... and there's no reason to break a good friendship with anyone over romance.
e2kp
Member
That's true. Thanks smokey!
e2kp
Member
I'll keep that in mind, but I wouldn't want someone to do this to me.
Snow Crash
Well-Known Member
You should give him a blow job. 
haha, kidding.
Stay friends. Love is a fickle beast. Give it 5 years, the two of you will live hundreds of miles from each other and hardly have contact through facebook.
I can count at least 3 girls I said "I love you" to before I even graduated High School. Words don't mean shit, take it from a dude.
haha, kidding.Stay friends. Love is a fickle beast. Give it 5 years, the two of you will live hundreds of miles from each other and hardly have contact through facebook.
I can count at least 3 girls I said "I love you" to before I even graduated High School. Words don't mean shit, take it from a dude.
e2kp
Member
I know, I've been in this situation before but in the other shoes. I tried to not be friends with or talk to him, but I can't help it. I like to talk to him and he can invoke every single emotion within me to the extreme....
LOL i hope this was meant as a joke do people up in Canada really have no game???
Snow Crash
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Dude... Have you never gotten with a fat girl before? Its the easiest shit in the world. Compliment her shoes and her eyes and let her know you want to get down. It's that easy. Big girls need good lovin too.
Haha true that. Nicely played
Snow Crash
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Just doing what I can to bring a smile into the world. Even if that smile is framed with a double chin
e2kp
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I've been up there..... lol
e2kp
Member
This shit is hilarious and rude! LolJust doing what I can to bring a smile into the world. Even if that smile is framed with a double chin
e2kp
Member
You should give him a blow job.
Stay friends. Love is a fickle beast. Give it 5 years, the two of you will live hundreds of miles from each other and hardly have contact through facebook.
I can count at least 3 girls I said "I love you" to before I even graduated High School. Words don't mean shit, take it from a dude.
I wanted to give him a blow job and had to restrain myself......lol His words are harsh, but his actions show something different. I'm an empath by nature and I'm not saying this to make me feel good.
I've agreed to stay friends and ride it out like smokey said. Snow you're right his words could be lies from fear or he doesn't want me?!?!? So why want to save the friendship? Friends come and go. Why stay friends with someone who wants more??? Any advice?
I'll keep you updated. Did I mention this is a long distance friendship.... Next time on Love, Puffs and Passes...
rambler420
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Stay friends with him, keep him in your life, but let him know you think it's okay to not move forward. Give off the "well, that sucks, but your loss" vibe.Girl loves boy.
Boy cares for girl.
Girl sees more than caring from boy.
Boy says he doesn't love girl.
What should girl do now when boys says that he wants to stay friends and keep girl in his life?
Compose yourself. Keep going with life. Go out on a date or two. Get your self esteem up. If it takes a date or two or a night out with the girls, do it. Make yourself fun and exude confidence. Men dig chics with confidence. Make him think you're all that. Pretty soon he's going to want some of whatever it is that you've got that makes you all that.
e2kp
Member
I have been dating and hanging out and focusing on other things. I don't have to make him think I'm all that because I'm not that kind of lady I guess. I am what I am and if he doesn't like it than it is his loss. I told him about the thread and I think it may have freaked him out a little. I'm not going to lie to him although I suspect he's a world class liar himself.
I don't want to stay friends with him especially since I know some part of me will be looking for something more...also everyone tells me to leave him alone because we come from 2 different "worlds"....
I went on a date on Saturday and he smoked salvia. I've never seen it in before and it was scary. At least I know Timmy wouldn't tweak in front of me. Oh yeah his name is Timmy.
rambler420
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meh different strokes for different folks. Sales 101...the fear of loss. Make him think he's about to lose out on something awesome, then maybe he'll think twice.
