Bryguy420
Active Member
try not smoking so much weed and critisizing and judging people for a minute and you might. you do not know my parenting situation, so why are you so quick to "blame the parents". now, there is no excuse for my wife doing what she did in the first place when she failed to notice my son making a break for the door, but im here, not her. my son never got away from me while she was at work and i was watching him, so you can ease up on the "lame" comments. we had just had a once a year manager inspection less than 24 hours before this wnt down. any new locks on our door would have been a breach in our lease. i was about a week away from installing 2 holds on the door and placing a 2x4 on the door that would have been too heavy for my son to move, while offering us some measure of protection from anyone that may have wanted to break into our house. its more of a case of "our son is repeatedly putting my family in danger" than "you guys are shitty parents". with him barely speaking, its rather difficult to get through my 2 year old. its not like i can see the future, especially when i was asleep I WAS A SLEEP FOR THE NIGHT. it was 2 am, he should have been trying to go to bed too. my wife just made an innocent mistake of putting the 10 month old down for the night first, which in all honesty, in itself wasnt a terrible thing. my son took things upon himself to create a worst case scenerio situation. i am not justifying what she did was right, understand that everything we did that evening was typical and normal, and our son then made a very unprodictable move that caused my card castle topple. if you are referring to him being in dangwr in dhs custofy, than you are dreaming. if anything he is far safer at the moment than he was in my home, as if he was to escape again while i am dealing with this court case, than i would really be screwed. if anything, there is something psycologically wrong with him and dhs will find out what it is. when we get him back, im sure they will have him used to some kind of medication that will tame his wildness and once we move to a different place, which will be in or around 3 months, we will get him back and i wont have to worry about this biting me in the ass. if this happened in texas or florida, i can see this being huge, however this is the west coast. dhs HERE does not view marijuana as hasrshly as other states do. it is stated in the police report that they do not believe i was growing enough to sell, so there isnt a case of me selling illegal drugs out of my home. if they did think that, i would never see my kids. i dont even drink alcahol. the state is doing me favor right now, whether they know it or not, by watching over my children. they arent even charging me for the overtime they are putting in babysitting my kids, LOL! seriously, i was scared at first because this was all strange and new, but you are blowing this out of purportion. its serious only because dhs has my kids, but not that serious because i KNOW i am getting them back as soon as my trial is over. until then my wife is learning a very important lesson and i have to go through some annoyences such as pee tests and court dates for a the next 6 moths, max. i can do that, no prob. dhs can make unnanounced visits after i get my kids. it doesnt bother me. they can see my new pot plants ill be growing and ill smile. why? because dhs also signed my mmj card as they are the ones who gave me the card. for a stoner, you seem pretty aggro. i have an excuse, i had stress and no weed, but what's your excuse?