Hello boys, I'm here to remind you of a not-so-secret:
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" and believe me OP, if you are not upfront and honest about something like this, your lady (if she's of sound mind) will find out and will be upset you lied. SERIOUSLY, honesty is the best policy. I am a woman and before I started smoking back in the day, I was misinformed and totally against all drugs, including the lovely plant I now grow
. When my boyfriend in my last year of high school came clean to me about his cannabis use, instead of being angry he smoked, I researched the topic and educated myself on this entire culture. I found how wrong I was and with that boyfriends help, I realized how wonderful this plant really is.
Once again,
just be honest. As fabfun mentioned, sit her down and be straight with her. If anything she will appreciate you came to her before doing anything. It will show her how you respect her and wish her to be involved in private things in your life. As an adult woman, I think it is universal that we want to be respected by our partners. Lying to her will translate to disrespect and you will be punished.
Here's an accurate image of what will happen to you/your marriage if you go through with hiding your hobby: