oh lord, been down this road a couple times with several girlfriends....
Some love it, some hate it, some do it just for you...
I have learned to give her control of my cock- I tell her in her ear to grab my cock and play with it down there and that it turns me on..., like its her dildo... this will turn her on big time and she will, then you can feel where she moves it to. When you pound her...make sure to slam your balls against her butthole- grab her ass firmly and take that dominant roll- eventually she will want more....but
several things to follow here.
- Patience
- Plan it-the forbidden stink bomb could occur....LOLZ! not cool if it does!- Plan it preferbly with her, so she knows wtf she ate and when she ate last... Only she knows if your poker is going to run into something or not...lolz- definately don't want it after she sucked down that giant plate of nachos and beer yesterday, followed by some kind of dietary supplement fiber bar for a snack...or some candy and soda... uhhhhgg !!!- what happens when you eat some candy and suck down a soda?? you become a farting fuckin machine and she does too!
- She needs to have a want to do this, if she isn't into pain or anything freaky like sado, you are probably out of luck.
- You could however- introduce a small toy into bed that is smaller than you and play with that shit a little- see where it goes, maybe in you! LOLZ!
- You could also get a book for her to read that interests her in sexual fantasy remotely, as in get a romance novel that is known to heat things up, go to barnes and noble and ask an older librarian lady for a hot romance novel for your wife to help heat things up, a little embarrassing but not as bad as the forbidden stink accident embarrassing!
- Give her a day of pamper- nails, toes, massage, flowers, toss her salad, eat her snatch till she screams then get up and walk away saying you were pleasured plenty off that and that did it for you!
- Buy some costumes! they can be fun and can teach "fantasy" roles
- Achem!, Anal eaze... Anal lube... bring something, don't just spit on it! you can buy some many types of lubes and shit- buy something for her that also has a numbing sensation- this might trigger her to take it...!
- Go get a chick that is into piercings- face, nipples, eyebrows, into tats..., this usually goes hand in hand- they like surprising weird stuff and to be caught off guard
Hope this helps your journey down the hersey highway grasshoppa! >x<