My Friend Might Die.

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The Real Peter Parker said:
Around the 18th? I'll have to see what my work schedule is like... feeling a road trip still... I was all psyched up. Sorry to Roseman, just found that stuff out a bit too late. He had already put into action a plan to get me some money for the trip, and I fucked up, but at least PMd him in time to stop it.
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the 18th is when he gets here i believe.... he'll be here for a little while, its a bit flexible.... we can set it all up on here... as i'll have to pick him up anyway since he wont be having a vehicle with him
 
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racerboy71 said:
i just thought that i would like to say how VERY impressed i was by everyone on this thread, but mostly peter parker and gogrow and roseman and everyone who did all they could to help out backdoorman.. sometimes some of the negativity on this site gets me down a little bit and makes me wonder about peoles humanity, but after catching this thread in the late stages and reading it front to back, i have to say some of my faith in humanity has been restored by some of you people here.. THANK YOU ALL VERY MUCH... i know i am leaving someone off of my list, and i apologize ahead of time.. no harm meant, just that my memory is shot, lol..
i would also like to say to bdm that even if you don't get to see your buddy as soon as you would like... i don't think it matters all of that much.. just the fact that he in on your mind and in your heart is good enough sometimes.. and the fact that your heart is soo heavy from what is going on speaks more than being there in peron ever could.. i will be thinking about your buddy, and i hope that all will turn out for the best..
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he's my boy.... I'll do what i can when i can for my friends......

and i agree with the rest..... to J (bdm), the fact that you even give a shit enough to do everything in your power to be there for your friend means more than anything.... I can guarantee you that he will not hold it against you for being across the country and broke.... he knows bro. Just be there for him the best you can bro, and you are a true friend....
 
The Real Peter Parker

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gogrow said:
the 18th is when he gets here i believe.... he'll be here for a little while, its a bit flexible.... we can set it all up on here... as i'll have to pick him up anyway since he wont be having a vehicle with him
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Maybe I'm hallucinating in my mind... You live east of all this right? That's what I thought anyway.
 
potka

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I feel for you man. Even if he does pass before you see him you'll always have the memories to hold onto. Those never die.
 
BackDoorMan

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My om just got out from visiting him and called me. He's out of surgery, but not out of the woods yet.. they're watching him for blood clots, but can't give him blood thinners for fear he could bleed to death... I think she said he's got another surgery tomorrow, and they said he's running fever, but thats nothing to really worry about they said... they have him in a coma, and don't want to wake him yet... I've found myself sending prayers out to him all day... trying to speak to him, and tell him he better not pass without me..

I can't help but breakdown and shed tears for him... and i'm finding it harder and harder not to cry... all of his family keeps saying that, when he moved out there, he didn't know anybody, and he didn't have anybody.. until one day, I stopped in and we've been close ever since.. he wasn't even in high school then... I don't even think I was 21 yet... what they don't know, or what they fail to realise.. is that until I stopped over there.. I didn't even know what a friend was.. I was just looking for somebody to get high with, so I didn't have to get high alone.. and that motherfucker became my brother... and now, i'm afraid i'll never get to see him again... i'll never be able to shake hands with him.. I close my eye's and I see him smile... I just wanna be there for him... I wanna hold his hand, and tell him his boy's here for him, and I ain't leaving without him, and he ain't leaving without me.. I just wanna kick it with him one more time... and I don't know if i'll ever be able to do that... and if not... I don't know if I can forgive myself.. I just want my nigga...
 
KindGrower

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Yeah dude thats deep. Whoever can make it down here we def need to get up and have a get together ha. Hopefully your buddy will be awake and ok, maybe we could all stop in and say hey. ha But still hoping everything works out.:-o
 
marijuano1

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i tryed to help you out in the good way not sying anything mean but you bitched so FUCK YOU...thats for all the bullshit you said
 
BackDoorMan

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KindGrower said:
Yeah dude thats deep. Whoever can make it down here we def need to get up and have a get together ha. Hopefully your buddy will be awake and ok, maybe we could all stop in and say hey. ha But still hoping everything works out.:-o
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yeah, I don't see no reason why not... If nothing else, me you go and the rest of us southerners can kick it, and i'm not leaving MS, i'm going to hang around and keep an eye on him.. try and be there for him and help him improve..
 
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BackDoorMan said:
yeah, I don't see no reason why not... If nothing else, me you go and the rest of us southerners can kick it, and i'm not leaving MS, i'm going to hang around and keep an eye on him.. try and be there for him and help him improve..
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Good deal dude, Im sure we could all get together over christmas. And I'm sure your buddy would really appreciate you being there for him.:joint:
 
Stoney McFried

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I'm glad to hear he made it through the surgery,and I'll send some positive thoughts his way myself...and to Peterparker, Kind,And Roseman,you all are good people and I said so in the rep I gave you.
BackDoorMan said:
i'm sorry to report, that I can't get my ticket refunded as it's a non-refundable ticket..

I am happy to report that he's made it through the surgery fine and they're looking t see if there's anymore internal bleeding... they're going t take him in for back surgery in alittle while, but aren't given him much hope to ever walk again.. his grandmother told me that there's really no reason for me to come in, as I wont be able to see him for a few days anyway... she told me the best thing I can do for him is continue to pray for him and just fly in on the 18th

I really appreciate everything everyone has done nd is willing to do for us... as soon as I see him i'm going to show him everything you've all said and was willing to do... you're all wonderful people... I love each and everyone of you.. thank you all sooo much... you've been a blessing.

By the way.. i'm 27
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BackDoorMan

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thanks stoney and everyone else for the positive vibes... everything is greatly appreciated... I'm sorry if I don't know how to express it.. +rep seems insignificant right now, and doesn't seem to put across my feelings and gratitude.. thank you all.. thank you
 
The Real Peter Parker

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Stoney McFried said:
I'm glad to hear he made it through the surgery,and I'll send some positive thoughts his way myself...and to Peterparker, Kind,And Roseman,you all are good people and I said so in the rep I gave you.
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Ha ha hell yeah, tenth bar you brought about. I think your repping power is 91[?] points, but I don't remember EXACTLY how much I had before you repped me but I think it was 1258, now I'm at 1349.
 
Stoney McFried

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Hey dude,why don't you take that shit somewhere else, OK?You're kicking a guy when he's down,then you tell him fuck you when he calls you on what you said. You were in the wrong, he called you on it,now admit you were an ass and apologize and leave him alone.SHEESH.
marijuano1 said:
i tryed to help you out in the good way not sying anything mean but you bitched so FUCK YOU...thats for all the bullshit you said
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BackDoorMan

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Stoney McFried said:
Hey dude,why don't you take that shit somewhere else, OK?You're kicking a guy when he's down,then you tell him fuck you when he calls you on what you said. You were in the wrong, he called you on it,now admit you were an ass and apologize and leave him alone.SHEESH.
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I appreciate it.. but with all the love you are all showing me and my boy... triffle comments from someone like this, just doesn't affect me...

A million thank you's to everyone here.. you've given me a reason to believe and hold faith... i'll never forget what you've all done for me, or atleast attempted to do for me here the past couple days... I just wish the rest of the world could see this.. could feel what I feel comming from you all.. your comments have kept me strong, and at times my eye's dry... you make my heart swell
 
Stoney McFried

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Man, I'd help if I could, but I can't. Hope your friend gets better.:hug:
BackDoorMan said:
I appreciate it.. but with all the love you are all showing me and my boy... triffle comments from someone like this, just doesn't affect me...

A million thank you's to everyone here.. you've given me a reason to believe and hold faith... i'll never forget what you've all done for me, or atleast attempted to do for me here the past couple days... I just wish the rest of the world could see this.. could feel what I feel comming from you all.. your comments have kept me strong, and at times my eye's dry... you make my heart swell
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