Yeah got nailed

[ink slingin' in the 805]

This makes me curious. What was said that made her fear for her safety? Was her exit blocked? Was she physically threatened?

I can't imagine anything that would ever lead me to call the police to deal with my husband. Then again my husband has never so much as raised his voice at me in the 10+ years we have been married. If he was aggressive by nature, was prone to male posturing and I had seen him fly off the handle and do stupid shit in anger, then I might have a different view.
Not accusing you or even defending her actions but the old addage "don't shit where you eat" might apply here.

In my opinion, three kinds of people always give you signs: the crazy, the predator, and the disloyal. When the actions of others take you by surprise, looking back usually reveals "signs" that the behavior was possible - if not inevitable.

Sorry 'bout all the chaos. Hopefully life will calm down soon and you can get on with moving on.

ive seen firsthand how obnoxious and rediculous SOME females can be. SOME females have it in them to do you REAL dirty and cross them boundrys. she should not have gone their knowing what you had going on in the house. im not 100% sure, but based on the fact that YOUR DAD was their helping you, that tells me that you didnt have her in a headlock beating her face in, i dont think many dads would approve of that. i could be wrong but for now im gonna go with, sorry dude, i feel your pain. i hope things work out better for ya.

 

[420weedman]

And she had every right to, you sir, are an idiot. She'd be smart to walk away.

Did no one else see this comment?

i saw that later too .... she already walked away with some 19yo... thats why he made the comment ... i think

 

[cadillacjack81]

the narc even said dude i would have killed her, i said some shit in a fit of anger i had no intentions of actually killing her and she knew it i believe my exact words were "i have unregistered hand guns i should kill you id only do 5 years tops" ive never hit her or done anything to warrant the actions she did to me im not proud of how i handled it but none of you know what your gonna do until your in that situation

 

[SocataSmoker]

EDIT.... he shouldn't have threatened her. He should have just set her shit out on the curb. With a boombox blasting "If you think you're lonely now....Wait until Tonight Girl"

Thanks for editing your original post... I didn't think you that kind of guy gravy. There is no good reason in hell to ever threaten to kill your wife, if so... you don't need to be married.

she should not have gone their knowing what you had going on in the house.

Dude threatened to kill her, and she obviously thought he was serious. She had plenty of reason to "go there".

 

[Iron Lungz23]

i saw that later too .... she already walked away with some 19yo... thats why he made the comment ... i think

Yeah, saw it later as well, still think she's a nasty bitch!!!

 

[Biggravy22]

the narc even said dude i would have killed her, i said some shit in a fit of anger i had no intentions of actually killing her and she knew it i believe my exact words were "i have unregistered hand guns i should kill you id only do 5 years tops" ive never hit her or done anything to warrant the actions she did to me im not proud of how i handled it but none of you know what your gonna do until your in that situation

Dude I feel you. I don't know how I'd react if my wife came in at 11am. I think alot of guys would have acted the same way. It was a knee jerk reaction. Although I do hope you changed the locks and tossed her shit out on the curb.

 

[SocataSmoker]

Yeah, saw it later as well, still think she's a nasty bitch!!!

I really doubt this is the first time he's blown up on her, she probably had a good reason to be out with someone else. You can only treat someone like shit for so long until it comes down on ya...

 

[420weedman]

the narc even said dude i would have killed her, i said some shit in a fit of anger i had no intentions of actually killing her and she knew it i believe my exact words were "i have unregistered hand guns i should kill you id only do 5 years tops" ive never hit her or done anything to warrant the actions she did to me im not proud of how i handled it but none of you know what your gonna do until your in that situation

wow ... thats more detailed and believable .... you gotta think b 4 you speak dude... im not surprised she called now

"you know those cement blocks i have ? and the steel chain ? ... well im gonna take you for a boat ride later bitch... how long you think it will take them to find your body?"

 

[cadillacjack81]

nah i left and took all my shit she can have that shitty lil apartment she cant afford it anyways so shell end up blowin dudes for rent

 

[Biggravy22]

Thanks for editing your original post... I didn't think you that kind of guy gravy. There is no good reason in hell to ever threaten to kill your wife, if so... you don't need to be married.


I had to step back and put myself in the situation. If it were my wife, I'd probably just do everything necessary/legal to get her away from me. I figure it like this. If I'm calm she'll be even more fucked up. She'll be constantly thinking about what's going to happen next, and that would be satisfaction enough for me. To know the Tide of power has shifted. With that said. If I walked in the house, and some dude was plowing my wife. I'd be going in for double homicide.

 

[cadillacjack81]

she was out with him cuz she said im emotionally detatched from everything ive been havin a hard time since i got out of the military im not gonna lie she liked the attention he showed her at work, she didnt even tell me she was unhappy, that night i would have said everything is fine till i woke up at 2 and shes not home and her phones off

 

[Iron Lungz23]

Mate, shit gets said when u find out your wife is being unfaithful!!

 

[Biggravy22]

nah i left and took all my shit she can have that shitty lil apartment she cant afford it anyways so shell end up blowin dudes for rent

Why has she done this in the past? Does she have a history of shady behavior?

 

[Biggravy22]

I just asked my wife what she would do if I came home at 11am without so much as a call. her reply...

"I'd probably put the meat tenderizer to use...Spiky side down."

I might be weird but that really turned me on.

 

[cadillacjack81]

nah shes a really good girl we just got married too young and she wants to go out and party and act like a lil kid again and thats the exact opposite of what i want so its for the best

 

[Ronjohn7779]

from the never get busted dvd.... ive been interested in this...

they wanted to get into your house to "secure it" did they have a warrant ? probably not ... you could have done like the movie said " yell through the door asking what they want and if they insist on coming in without a warrant tell them they have to kick the door down" .... would have been interesting... they didnt need to "secure" your house any way

We let them in. It was no big deal we weren't riding dirty as they say. We were more worried about some crazed gun man point a gun at people. Our home was also in direct line of fire with the potential shooter and with the swat team's gun fire and ballistics. Believe me they used ballistics. They bombed half of the guy's roof off his home (he locked himself in one side of the room) and supposably had his family hostage. At the time it semed like a serious threat. This all happened at 4 am on a weekday. My area is totally known for suburban wack-jobs loosing it and going on a killing spree. This shit happens every month it seems. Something must be in the water.

 

[SlikWiLL13]

We let them in. It was no big deal we weren't riding dirty as they say. We were more worried about some crazed gun man point a gun at people. Our home was also in direct line of fire with the potential shooter and with the swat team's gun fire and ballistics. Believe me they used ballistics. They bombed half of the guy's roof off his home (he locked himself in one side of the room) and supposably had his family hostage. At the time it semed like a serious threat. This all happened at 4 am on a weekday. My area is totally known for suburban wack-jobs loosing it and going on a killing spree. This shit happens every month it seems. Something must be in the water.

Ballistics (gr. βάλλειν ('ba'llein'), "throw") is the science of mechanics that deals with the flight, behavior, and effects of projectiles, especially bullets, gravity bombs, rockets, or the like; the science or art of designing and accelerating projectiles so as to achieve a desired performances

huh?

 

[420weedman]

Our home was also in direct line of fire with the potential shooter and with the swat team's gun fire and ballistics. Believe me they used ballistics.

so the guy point his gun out the window ... and that would be toward your house.... why would the swat team be shooting toward your house .. are they on his side ?

and yea .... ballistics .... no .. thats science they use to investigate shootings and what not (not a weapon)

 

[Louis541]

Dude, that's bullshit. Everyone on here knows damn well people say things like that when they get mad. She wasn't worried, she probably wants you out of the picture. Best thing to do is walk away. She's not worth it. If he's got money make sure the shadiest people you know have that info. Make sure she gets robbed as well. Then trade all that shit for something else, and give it to your woman. Chances are you're going to get raped in the divorce. That's just the way it is. But she's not worth getting in trouble for. Just walk away with a smile on your face and that will eat at her more then anything.

 

[roachwagon]

Sorry for you dude, just let her go and be done with her. In my house, I am the grower since I have cancer. My old man has bought me a ton of stuff for me and my grow. I am not working cuz of the chemo. As a female I pull my own weight. Why do some guys treat us women as all being ho's and bitches and skanks. Drives me crazy esp since I am one of the cool chicks around I don't get it.