Straight, Bi, or Gay?

[Stoney McFried]

I was having a conversation in another thread that made me want to start this topic. Lately I've been hearing a lot about "straight" guys who occasionally get it on with other guys.Yet they still call themselves straight. Shouldn't they be at least called bi if they're doing it more than once? I know I'm opening a can of worms here, but let's try to keep this discussion open and civil. I've been thinking about this and realized that, while I don't care what anyone else does with their life, I may, if I'm being totally honest here, feel a bit threatened as a woman if I dated a guy who went off and did these things. (Let's make it clear...I'd be angry first and foremost about being cheated on,because I don't believe in deception like that. If you're gonna fuck other people, both parties must be aware, and have a choice in whether they want to be in an open relationship.)Anyway...I think if it was with another guy I might question myself as a woman, or feel a little "extra" hurt because I simply cannot compete.(I know, Stoney has weird little things going on in her head.)
So what do you guys think? If a "straight" person participates in sex acts with someone of the same gender more than once (because they enjoy it, not talking about forced scenarios here), do they lose their official straight badge?EDIT: And yes, I've heard of the Kinsey scale, I just want opinions.

 

[strangerdude562]

They are homos and that's it, they just say their not gay because they don't want to be. Usually acts like that are triggered by a traumatic event in their childhood.

 

[Bud Frosty]

If a "straight" person participates in sex acts with someone of the same gender more than once (because they enjoy it, not talking about forced scenarios here), do they lose their official straight badge?[/quote]

Uh, yeah.

Shiite straight here.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Well...I don't think they can be called homosexuals, really, either, because they still like women.I'm thinking Bi.But I'm trying to get some different perspectives here.

They are homos and that's it, they just say their not gay because they don't want to be. Usually acts like that are triggered by a traumatic event in their childhood.

Can you elaborate?Do you mean you are straight? Or my post is shiite,lol?EDIT, nevermind, I was a little slow on the draw.So, so far, three of us say they are not straight.

If a "straight" person participates in sex acts with someone of the same gender more than once (because they enjoy it, not talking about forced scenarios here), do they lose their official straight badge?

Uh, yeah.

Shiite straight here.[/quote]

 

[GrowTech]

A man who has sex, kisses, etc another man is 100% gay. Anyone who tells you otherwise is still in the closet. And yes, the same goes for porn stars. A "straight man in a gay porn" is a liar.

 

[Stoney McFried]

Even if he still does it with women? Doesn't that make him bi?Or do you not believe in bi? Do you think the same rules apply to girls? I kissed girls before at a bar as a joke, and did a hands on approach to "feel" where a girl's g spot was for reference.(It was really clinical.) I wasn't turned on by the experiences, and wasn't doing them for my own pleasure, just as a joke or in the case of the g spot, to better understand my own body. I think I'm straight, with strong leanings towards non sexual, lol.

A man who has sex, kisses, etc another man is 100% gay. Anyone who tells you otherwise is still in the closet. And yes, the same goes for porn stars. A "straight man in a gay porn" is a liar.

 

[GrowTech]

Well the act of two men kissing is a GAY act, even if he is bisexual which is 100% possible.

The only instances when it is not gay for one man to kiss another: A friend, brother, or father on his death bed, or two get two really hot girls to have group sex.

Having sex with another man in the same room is okay as long as you don't look eachother in the eyes, touch junk, or anything shady like that.

Watching a couple have sex is okay though.

Two guys and one girl is okay if the situation is right... The girl has to be hotter than the situation is gay... and even then it's still iffy.


I don't personally have anything against gay, bi, lesbian, transsexual... This is just my take on things... and the sort of guidelines I keep for me.

 

[GrowTech]

Also, you touching a females gspot at a bar might not be bisexual or lesbian if done for reference, but it is certainly 100% disgusting, I've had enough sex with strangers to know that it is really gross.

Again, just my opinion.

 

[Smo KING]

I was having a conversation in another thread that made me want to start this topic. Lately I've been hearing a lot about "straight" guys who occasionally get it on with other guys.Yet they still call themselves straight. Shouldn't they be at least called bi if they're doing it more than once? I know I'm opening a can of worms here, but let's try to keep this discussion open and civil. I've been thinking about this and realized that, while I don't care what anyone else does with their life, I may, if I'm being totally honest here, feel a bit threatened as a woman if I dated a guy who went off and did these things. (Let's make it clear...I'd be angry first and foremost about being cheated on,because I don't believe in deception like that. If you're gonna fuck other people, both parties must be aware, and have a choice in whether they want to be in an open relationship.)Anyway...I think if it was with another guy I might question myself as a woman, or feel a little "extra" hurt because I simply cannot compete.(I know, Stoney has weird little things going on in her head.)
So what do you guys think? If a "straight" person participates in sex acts with someone of the same gender more than once (because they enjoy it, not talking about forced scenarios here), do they lose their official straight badge?EDIT: And yes, I've heard of the Kinsey scale, I just want opinions.

If someone kills someone just once are they still considered a murderer..Yes I believe if a man enagages another and still likes women as well then he would be considered bisexual.Now if he also engages animals which is beastiality then he is a trisexual

 

[Stoney McFried]

You're right, it is a homosexual act.I agree. As for the rest, it sounds kinda like the official straight guy rules I was always exposed to around my brothers, lol.

Well the act of two men kissing is a GAY act, even if he is bisexual which is 100% possible.

The only instances when it is not gay for one man to kiss another: A friend, brother, or father on his death bed, or two get two really hot girls to have group sex.

Having sex with another man in the same room is okay as long as you don't look eachother in the eyes, touch junk, or anything shady like that.

Watching a couple have sex is okay though.

Two guys and one girl is okay if the situation is right... The girl has to be hotter than the situation is gay... and even then it's still iffy.


I don't personally have anything against gay, bi, lesbian, transsexual... This is just my take on things... and the sort of guidelines I keep for me.

No, silly.I kissed girls at a bar, the g spot thing was private, and I knew her.

Also, you touching a females gspot at a bar might not be bisexual or lesbian if done for reference, but it is certainly 100% disgusting, I've had enough sex with strangers to know that it is really gross.

Again, just my opinion.

 

[GrowTech]

If someone kills someone just once are they still considered a murderer..Yes I believe if a man enagages another and still likes women as well then he would be considered bisexual.Now if he also engages animals which is beastiality then he is a trisexual

Sounds like a dinosaur

 

[hom36rown]

Looks like we have a pretty unanimous decision. I had a psych professor say that 1 in 4 men has a homosexual experience at some point in their life. I dont know if thats true are not, sounds pretty high to me.

 

[Nocturn3]

Looks like we have a pretty unanimous decision. I had a psych professor say that 1 in 4 men has a homosexual experience at some point in their life. I dont know if thats true are not, sounds pretty high to me.

Maybe he was just trying to talk you into something.

"It's no big deal. One in four men does it at some point" lol

 

[ANC]

Even if he still does it with women? Doesn't that make him bi?Or do you not believe in bi? Do you think the same rules apply to girls? I kissed girls before at a bar as a joke, and did a hands on approach to "feel" where a girl's g spot was for reference.(It was really clinical.) I wasn't turned on by the experiences, and wasn't doing them for my own pleasure, just as a joke or in the case of the g spot, to better understand my own body. I think I'm straight, with strong leanings towards non sexual, lol.

Even if he still does it with women...

You know, I don;lt blame women, because some of you are so friggen gorgeous, but I think the majority of women are lesbian to some extent, whereas it is realy more of a defect when seen by and in the male population...

I may be totaly blinded by being male though... lol, maybe we should ask some hermies..

 

[Stoney McFried]

Yeah. I don't know.

Looks like we have a pretty unanimous decision. I had a psych professor say that 1 in 4 men has a homosexual experience at some point in their life. I dont know if thats true are not, sounds pretty high to me.

But, isn't that a double standard? I'm totally not lesbian, I'm pretty sure of that. And the fact that the things I did with the girls wan't a turn on for me pretty much cinches it. It was all so clinical. But then again, I'm not really a tremendously sexual person, as is.

Even if he still does it with women...

You know, I don;lt blame women, because some of you are so friggen gorgeous, but I think the majority of women are lesbian to some extent, whereas it is realy more of a defect when seen by and in the male population...

I may be totaly blinded by being male though... lol, maybe we should ask some hermies..

 

[ANC]

Lets rephrase that to BI-curious, I have yet to meet a girl who didn't find some women attractive at some level... I'm not saying they would jump into munching carpet...

 

[Stoney McFried]

Well, I can admit when another woman is good looking. But I can't say I'd like to play with their boobs or anything.I have wondered if it would be easier to date other women at times, at least in terms of empathy....Although I am a lot less feminine than a "typical" woman, so I'd probably get tired of her if she was too girly.I get along easier with guys friendship wise.

Lets rephrase that to BI-curious, I have yet to meet a girl who didn't find some women attractive at some level... I'm not saying they would jump into munching carpet...

 

[WRRide]

Sorry about the late post but i just came across this thread, I personally think there is a sliding scale from straight to gay and everyone falls somewhere in between. I can admit just like stony when a guy is decent looking, although I find that my definition of decent looking is way off from people(male or female) who are looking at guys on a sexual level

 

[Psychopassive]

I think if you allow the odd homosexual experience, then the term straight becomes meaningless. I think there's a difference between someone who's gay, and feels very strongly attracted to their own gender, and someone who mostly has straight sex but goes same sex occasionally, but neither of them are straight. IMHO

If a man mostly has sex with women, but ocassionally shags a female sheep, is he straight, gay or Welsh?

 

[Where in the hell am I?]

Theres a sayin in prison:
Ya can slang dope fer 20 years and kill 500 people, but ya suck 1 dick or tell on 1 person and yer a faggot-ass-rat.
I reckon that a lot of ppls mentality out here is the same way and thats a DAWG Damn shame! If I found out that my married friend likes to blow another guy from time to time, I wud try to act like I didnt care. Its not fer me, but so wat?!? I also shave my head, but do not have a problem in the world w/my friends that have hair. Reckon my parents ruined me by raisin me w/such liberal morals.
BTW, IMHO, they are bi