Just an FYI, Joe Shmoe has no more "choice" in being gay as I do about being straight...
Would I like to suck a dick? Fuck no thank you.
Would Joe Shmoe like to fuck a woman? Fuck no.
It's not a choice, is your physical attraction for a round booty and a nice pair of boobies a choice?
Do you choose what makes your dick jump? Do you choose to be interested in brunettes, blonds, latinas, blacks, fatties, skinny girls?
Religion is a choice, where you live is a choice, the job you do is a choice, what you drive is a choice... who you love is NOT a choice... Do you choose to love a serial killer? Do you CHOOSE to love a rapist, murderer, or pedophile? No... at least you wouldn't admit to it...
More importantly, what gives any one of us the right to decide what a perfectly suitable healthy couple does, whether marriage, kids, etc?
Saying gays shouldn't adopt, or shouldn't get married is like saying blacks can't get married or adopt. I mean, black people have just as much choice in being black as gay people have in being gay.
Hopefully one day you all grow up enough to see that the only thing in life YOU have control over is YOUR actions, and not the fate, sexuality, or interests of anyone else.