Guys i need help and advice

[nugrug]

Counciling? Now i feel like this is a troll post. At 21 for a relationship you had/ have as a child. If shes sexting, at best she’s contemplating physically cheating on you. You know how it feels right now? Imagine when you catch her in another 5 or 10yrs.
your call but don’t say I didn’t warn you lol. I get it shes your first it stings but there’s a saying, once a cheater always a cheater. Move on. Do you really want to continue with that in your head. Being at work or school and can’t even focus cause your constantly wondering what shes up to? You haven’t mentioned having any other investments in her execpt 5 yrs of life. No kids no financial obligations to complicate shit or worth sticking it out and trying for. Your 21 hit the reset like xbox and move on.

Nah man not a troll post ik the counseling part sounds dumb . The thing is I know i have to cut her off but I'm just not ready coz as i had no friends she was the only one who i had close contact to so it hurts like shit ( ik i sound pathetic here )

 

[bam0813]

No you don’t sound pathetic just temporarily damaged. Just my opinion and what ive seen in life with others. Ive been with my wife 30 yrs and if i caught her sexting today id be gone tomorrow nevermind at 21

this is the only counciling you need

 

[nugrug]

No you don’t sound pathetic just temporarily damaged. Just my opinion and what ive seen in life with others. Ive been with my wife 30 yrs and if i caught her sexting today id be gone tomorrow nevermind at 21
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this is the only counciling you need

Whts this now

 

[bam0813]

It a party full of other hoes. Like @Nope_49595933949 said, get out and start slaying.

 

[nugrug]

It a party full of other hoes. Like @Nope_49595933949 said, get out and start slaying.

Man hope that was easy for me but I will try

 

[Nope_49595933949]

Man hope that was easy for me but I will try

Just stop feeling sorry for yourself, it does you no good.

 

[StareCase]

... Man hope that was easy for me but I will try ...

Would you be able to approach a group such as that and introduce yourself?

 

[bam0813]

If he doesn’t already know one person at the party theres more to address than a shifty girlfriend. My .02

 

[nugrug]

Would you be able to approach a group such as that and introduce yourself?

Nope i wouldn't

 

[nugrug]

If he doesn’t already know one person at the party theres more to address than a shifty girlfriend. My .02

?? Yeah i mean im not very confident In myself especially whn something goes wrong like this

 

[Nope_49595933949]

?? Yeah i mean im not very confident In myself especially whn something goes wrong like this

Every tragedy is an opportunity and don't you forget it.
Don't become an angry incel, she wasn't the one so now you get to have fun

 

[nugrug]

Every tragedy is an opportunity and don't you forget it.
Don't become an angry incel, she wasn't the one so now you get to have fun

Yeah u are right. Now I'm just gonna focus on myself nd on enjoying bruh

 

[bam0813]

There you go

 

[nugrug]

There you go

Yeah there's no use in crying over it and thanks guy u all helped me alot

 

[Nope_49595933949]

Yeah there's no use in crying over it and thanks guy u all helped me alot

It's OK to have emotion about it, don't get it twisted, we are humans. Don't dwell on it.

 

[nugrug]

It's OK to have emotion about it, don't get it twisted, we are humans. Don't dwell on it.

Yeah i understand but what i meant is there is no use in me keep coming back to the same thing nd feeling bad

 

[StareCase]

... im not very confident In myself ...

To combat low self-esteem, just believe in yourself - and adopt a toe tappin' mantra:

( It worked for me ... )

 

[nugrug]

To combat low self-esteem, just believe in yourself - and adopt a toe tappin' mantra:

( It worked for me ... )

Thanks for that I'll surely try it

 

[bk78]

So did you bang her mom yet?

 

[nugrug]

So did you bang her mom yet?

Haha I'll keep u updated