Text msg with the G/F she pisses me off need advice

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Keenly

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ill post the small conversation and i need opinions why she is being so gay


(before i start this story some basic info is needed. I live in Nor cal, my father lives in Idaho. i rarely get to see him or speak to him, so when he calls me i consider it something worth dropping what im doing to talk to him)

GF: (cutesey talk blah blah) so what are you up to?

-Dad calls

time in between her the first text and the second text

14 minutes

GF text 2: well whatever it is it must be 2 important to take a break from to text me back.... well have fun then

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why is she so freakin gay sometimes

something like this happens at least every third day

the other day she went for 3 hours without texting me, did i send anything to make her feel bad? of course not

IMO the message is very selfish and it bothers me...
 
panhead

panhead

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Get used to it bud,most girls/women are very demanding when it comes to the attention they crave,if your not johnny on the spot giving them attention they pout or get angry at you.

My wife is very emotional also so i know the deal,if i come home & didnt notice she had her nails done & give her compliments she pouts,im ok with it though,it just shows me that she cares what i think about her & how i feel about her.

You should feel the same way also,instead of you being angry over her being pouty it should make you feel good,think of it like this,spending time or talking with you is very important to her,how can you not feel good about that.
 
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Keenly

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panhead said:
Get used to it bud,most girls/women are very demanding when it comes to the attention they crave,if your not johnny on the spot giving them attention they pout or get angry at you.

My wife is very emotional also so i know the deal,if i come home & didnt notice she had her nails done & give her compliments she pouts,im ok with it though,it just shows me that she cares what i think about her & how i feel about her.

You should feel the same way also,instead of you being angry over her being pouty it should make you feel good,think of it like this,spending time or talking with you is very important to her,how can you not feel good about that.
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she does a lot of things for me that i appreciate

but i cant fucking do ANYTHING without stopping and texting stopping and texting

for example if i go to my friends to do some work on an op or seomthing i have to stop and text and stop and text

basically what im getting angry at is im not getting any space

i just wanted to talk to my dad, not get text messages designed to make me feel bad and guilt me into apologizing for something i will never apoligize for either
 
strangerdude562

strangerdude562

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Even though I hate all this text crap and miss how the 90's were, you have to check her and let her know what's up. Here's a little story. My ex and I were on our way to Disneyland and during the drive I received a call from my mom telling me that my cousins were in a major accident and that a passenger died and they did not know who, so I immediately turned around and headed towards the hospital(1hr drive). My ex which had no concern for my family crisis continued to bitch for half the drive, so I left her next to a call box on the 91 freeway and told her to fuck off. If she doesn't care for my family then I don't care for her.
 
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Keenly

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strangerdude562 said:
Even though I hate all this text crap and miss how the 90's were, you have to check her and let her know what's up. Here's a little story. My ex and I were on our way to Disneyland and during the drive I received a call from my mom telling me that my cousins were in a major accident and that a passenger died and they did not know who, so I immediately turned around and headed towards the hospital(1hr drive). My ex which had no concern for my family crisis continued to bitch for half the drive, so I left her next to a call box on the 91 freeway and told her to fuck off. If she doesn't care for my family then I don't care for her.
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well shit dude its not near that bad, but if i was in your situation i would do the same thing to my girl
 
ststepen420

ststepen420

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girls are weird, some of them like the guys who act like they could care less and some want the ones that give them the attention. You should probably just let her know that shes not the only one in your life and shes not ever gonna be the only one and that she needs to respect that or else the relationship is gonna have problems like you are going through. I had the same deal, shed text me and call me at work and want me to call her on my breaks and i had to put a stop to it, just finally told her that my minds not worrying about texting and calling her on my breaks because thats my time to eat and sneak off into the woods for a fat bowl pack.
 
panhead

panhead

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Keenly said:
she does a lot of things for me that i appreciate

but i cant fucking do ANYTHING without stopping and texting stopping and texting

for example if i go to my friends to do some work on an op or seomthing i have to stop and text and stop and text

basically what im getting angry at is im not getting any space

i just wanted to talk to my dad, not get text messages designed to make me feel bad and guilt me into apologizing for something i will never apoligize for either
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Well bud ya gotta do something then,its not gonna go away on its own,question for ya,what is so all fire important to you young folk about text messages i mean what is the attraction to stare into that tiny ass lil screen,then poke around on even smaller stupid little buttons.

To me texting is the dumbest form of communication on earth & not worthy of time.

As mentoned get rid of texting,its stupid & causes you grief .
 
Hedgehunter

Hedgehunter

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strangerdude562 said:
Even though I hate all this text crap and miss how the 90's were, you have to check her and let her know what's up. Here's a little story. My ex and I were on our way to Disneyland and during the drive I received a call from my mom telling me that my cousins were in a major accident and that a passenger died and they did not know who, so I immediately turned around and headed towards the hospital(1hr drive). My ex which had no concern for my family crisis continued to bitch for half the drive, so I left her next to a call box on the 91 freeway and told her to fuck off. If she doesn't care for my family then I don't care for her.
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GOOD CALL , imo
 
Biggravy22

Biggravy22

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dude you don't have to get used to it. Not all women are immature, selfish, and needy. You need to find a woman with some fucking business, and doesn't validate her existance with pointless small talk with you. It will only get worse with this one. You could end it or have the "Talk".
 
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Keenly

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panhead said:
Well bud ya gotta do something then,its not gonna go away on its own,question for ya,what is so all fire important to you young folk about text messages i mean what is the attraction to stare into that tiny ass lil screen,then poke around on even smaller stupid little buttons.

To me texting is the dumbest form of communication on earth & not worthy of time.

As mentoned get rid of texting,its stupid & causes you grief .
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i use texts to say shit to my friends like

"dude lets smoke"

but honestly i dont want to text her all day
 
VansStoner1748

VansStoner1748

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Biggravy22 said:
dude you don't have to get used to it. Not all women are immature, selfish, and needy. You need to find a woman with some fucking business, and doesn't validate her existance with pointless small talk with you. It will only get worse with this one. You could end it or have the "Talk".
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........would +rep but got to spead some around or some shit
 
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Keenly

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OH hey awkward story just happened

so my girl wanted me to buy some KY for the good times..

i go to the store
grab it

and i see that there is only one register open, no big deal right?

my ex girlfriend AND her mother, who both work there, and working that only aisle

i said fuck that dropped the KY and walked out
 
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