People have big mouths, loose lips sink ships

Kind Sir

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I don’t understand why people want to brag about everything they do, in this example growing weed. I just started growing again, granted I live in an illegal state so it’s even worse but I know a few people who post their grows on fucking Snapchat. These are not young kids either, they are late 20s early 30s, have their own house, not broke etc...

I had 3-5 harvests and didn’t tell a soul, growing again and no one will ever know. I grow mushrooms too and no one knows. I’d rather look like a nobody and have everything, then a bragging king and lose everything.

Igo as far too lie to people I’ve known for almost 20 years, I don’t trust anyone. It makes me feel good knowing that people tell me stuff and I keep my mouth shut about it, but the other way around I know people talk. Maby it’s just people I know but no one can be fully trusted really. I trust my GF, my dad and my cats.
I may be a tad on the paranoid side but it’s worth it
 

Millo

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I 100% agree with you. I too wouldn't tell a living soul. Not worth it, at least not in an illegal state.
Sadly my wife thinks otherwise. She told her best friend and her boyfriend about it, and also told a work friend. We already had the conversation and I explained her why we should be cautious but she insisted that we can trust them. Truth is those are all people we smoke with, who smoke themselves, but imo that's no guarantee. Word can slip even if you don't intend to. And it's even easier to happen if it doesn't concern you personally ( i.e. it's not like THEY are the ones growing it).
Tbh I don't think it's paranoia. I think it's being smart.
I cross my fingers those friends of ours will pay attention. I'm already thinking of giving them some taste samples, I just always imagined telling them "hey check out this new weed I bought" rather than "hey check out this new strain I grew".
 

Kind Sir

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I 100% agree with you. I too wouldn't tell a living soul. Not worth it, at least not in an illegal state.
Sadly my wife thinks otherwise. She told her best friend and her boyfriend about it, and also told a work friend. We already had the conversation and I explained her why we should be cautious but she insisted that we can trust them. Truth is those are all people we smoke with, who smoke themselves, but imo that's no guarantee. Word can slip even if you don't intend to. And it's even easier to happen if it doesn't concern you personally ( i.e. it's not like THEY are the ones growing it).
Tbh I don't think it's paranoia. I think it's being smart.
I cross my fingers those friends of ours will pay attention. I'm already thinking of giving them some taste samples, I just always imagined telling them "hey check out this new weed I bought" rather than "hey check out this new strain I grew".
Yup, my one buddy I’ve know for almost 25 years (I’m 29,) was telling me about his grow and I just acted oblivious. I’m proud of him bc it is working well for him, and I won’t tell anyone, but I was almost let down after finding out how many people he told. If he would tell people about his own grow, why wouldn’t he tell people about mine.
Granted I’d be more apt to tell my secrets then my friends in a weird way but whatever.

You could honestly tell the coworkers that you stopped growing, give them a sample and be like there won’t be anymore where that came from... axt Kind of bummed out about it, “I wish I could keep growing but in case anything happened I don’t think it’s worth it.” Be genuine. Even bring it up again a few days later while your smoking once more, and act upset over it. Them continue on giving them samples of weed “you bought.”

My girlfriend actually made me this way, trusts absolutely no one and I thank her for that. I actually told my friend I’ve known for about 15 years after giving him mushrooms not to tell anyone, I got word from someone else that he told people. Piece of shit snitch. I will never look at him the same ever again.
 

Smorf

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A lot of people go down when the GF becomes the X-GF. So if she becomes the X you should just box up the grow for a while imo. Even if she says she won't tell anyone. Keep a stash to smoke some where else and wait a year before putting up lights again and/or move locations. I wouldn't even have a GF if I grew in an illegal state.
Other than that good on you for keeping you mouth shut.
No tell, no sell, no smell = no getting locked in a cell.
 

Kind Sir

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A lot of people go down when the GF becomes the X-GF. So if she becomes the X you should just box up the grow for a while imo. Even if she says she won't tell anyone. Keep a stash to smoke some where else and wait a year before putting up lights again and/or move locations. I wouldn't even have a GF if I grew in an illegal state.
Other than that good on you for keeping you mouth shut.
No tell, no sell, no smell = no getting locked in a cell.
Im going to be doing work with just one guy, I trust him ENOUGH. It’s rough out there and I gotta do what I gotta do for now. I don’t smell or tell though. My the GF could be a weak link if we did ever break up who knows, honestly we’ve been together about 12 years we’re just not married... should be though.

Im probably as terrified of prison as they come, I usually don’t even talk about stuff to random people online ha.
 

SpaceGrease

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Play sports .join the military or do a bit . The only people more savage is the ones that don’t check any of the boxes but are telling u what’s up .
 

Kind Sir

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Play sports .join the military or do a bit . The only people more savage is the ones that don’t check any of the boxes but are telling u what’s up .
Ya I have a gym membership and was joining a men’s basketball league but canceled due to covid... really sucks man.
 

Millo

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If he would tell people about his own grow, why wouldn’t he tell people about mine.
That's so true. The same applies to gossip. If somebody talks shit about someone with you, what makes you believe they won't also talk shit about you with somebody else?
You could honestly tell the coworkers that you stopped growing, give them a sample and be like there won’t be anymore where that came from... axt Kind of bummed out about it, “I wish I could keep growing but in case anything happened I don’t think it’s worth it.” Be genuine. Even bring it up again a few days later while your smoking once more, and act upset over it. Them continue on giving them samples of weed “you bought.”
I could, if I was alone. But since my wife doesn't want to , there's no use.
I actually told my friend I’ve known for about 15 years after giving him mushrooms not to tell anyone, I got word from someone else that he told people. Piece of shit snitch. I will never look at him the same ever again.
Damn that sucks so bad. We also grew mushies with pf tek 2 years ago. To my surprise it was actually easier than growing weed :lol:
 
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