Using ethanol will be even harder to purge than butane and will come with some amount of water. Better to just stick with butane.
Check the concentrates section, thats where all the BHO chat is done.
https://www.rollitup.org/f/concentrates-and-extracts.130/
If you wanna get into BHO you will want to grab a vacuum chamber with a temperature controlled heat mat. A single stage vacuum pump is all you need (dual stage is overkill) and harbor freight has them cheap.
If you wanna purge the butane without a vacuum then you want to spread the concentrate REALLY thin on parchment paper and let nature take it's course over time. Refrigerating or freezing the parchment will make the concentrate come right off.
Also another tip, freeze your packed tubes and cans of butane before you extract, this will help lockup some of the fats, waxes and lipids. I use a deep freezer and toss a bunch of packed tubes in there, after a day of freezing I add dry ice for about 12 hours. I cut some foam board insulation to make a section that fits the tubes, butane and the dry ice in a smaller section. This gets the tubes down really cold, colder than my IR thermometer can read.
If you do wanna play with ethanol, look into winterization. You dissolve the BHO in ethanol and put in the freezer. It will make a "snow globe" effect where fats, waxes and lipids will solidify and can be filtered out. I use a vacuum pump, erlenmeyer flask, buchner funnel (frozen) and one micron watts filter discs. This winterization will make for super smooth product that is more pure THC but a lot of the terpenes will wanna drop out. I like to use it on stuff that doesn't have an awesome flavor.
skunkpharmresearch.com is a great resource for extract artists.