Android spy app needed

[IgrowUgrow]

My fiance has always seemed trustworthy and has had my trust until now. I happened to look at her phone and saw alot was deleted. Her inbox was basically empty besides 1 random message from a guy sending her pictures and I guess she deleted the previous conversation and didn't realize he messaged again. I don't want to spy on her and never have but that's not the only reason. She has done other things lately to lead me to believe she is cheating. I need to know and clear my mind before I marry her. I only need it a few days to find out what I need to know.

 

[ANC]

Let it go. Let her go.
You are trying to build a fortress on the sand.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

I have been researching and they all seem like scams, are any of them legit. Or are there other apps or programs that can do this. I have heard of key loggers and key stroke recorders but I am not familiar with them.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

Let it go. Let her go.
You are trying to build a fortress on the sand.

I've been with this girl 5 yrs and I love her and I may be wrong about all this and it may be a misunderstanding but I need to know for sure.

 

[ANC]

If she were contemplating spying on you by bugging your phone, would you want to stay with her if you found out?

 

[IgrowUgrow]

But I've give her no reason, I leave my phone out and unlocked on purpose. Hell I even charge it on her side of the bed. She has given me reason to doubt in her loyalty that she cannot deny.

 

[ANC]

Life is long and you are going to need trust, not checked trust, just trust.
Jeez, I send my wife to trance parties with male friends.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

The problem is she still is protective over her phone and is on it all day but always busy when I try to talk to her. When I asked about the messages she got mad and went to sleep and ignored me then just acted like it was over and done the next day.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

I don't care if she had male friends and she knows, I just want her to be open and honest with me. If she wanted to go have fun with another couple I'd prob even be ok with that but I want her to talk to me. I want to know, and I've tried explaining this to her and she still hides and denies everything. She is my best friend you know.

 

[ANC]

best friends don't act like that

 

[IgrowUgrow]

Well if I don't spy on her and she is cheating on me, what happens if I don't find out until years down the road then I'm fucked and will have to start over. I am in love deeply with her and that's why I worry so much. If she would just tell me how she feels and what she desires we would be much happier.

 

[ANC]

If she would just tell me how she feels and what she desires we would be best friends.

I hate to break it to you. You are just a convenience to her.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

Well she was there for me when I was out of work a year and had 3 back surgeries and she supported me and we have been through alot together so if I can clear this up by spying on her for a couple weeks or less then I want to do that. Who know maybe she is just going through some stuff and doesn't want to talk about it. She isn't very good at expressing her feelings.

 

[Singlemalt]

Get yourself checked for G6PD enzyme deficiency; if you don't have it more options have opened up

 

[tyler.durden]

When you suspect cheating, that's what it is 9 times out of 10. It doesn't sound like the marriage would work with the poor communication between you. Spy apps require you to have access and passwords to her phone, doesn't sound like you do. Here's a device I used a few times that works brilliantly in real time -

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00JG8KCLO/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

It's a GPS tracker that you can put anywhere in, or on, her car. The service is like $20 a month to activate it, but it's accurate within 3 meters. If you find she's lying to you about where she is or went, you have your answer. Make sure that you're actually ready for the truth, and good luck...

 

[BarnBuster]

"Trust but verify"

Suggest that you both go to couples therapy over the trust issue and see what she says

http://www.mobiledit.com/forensic-express-personal

 

[cjsbabygirl313]

No problems can be fixed by spying - only by honesty, trust, and communication. By spying, you are becoming deceitful ...which is its own form of lying.

You need to sit her down, TELL her what you found, and let her know that you WANT to trust her but she has to be honest with you even if that truth will hurt. You also have to be willing to accept that what you may hear WILL hurt you.

My husband and I got together because we were both cheating on our ex spouses with each other and we fell deeply in love; and we know how quickly things can go bad without 100% open and honest communication. We had a rough start and went to couples counseling and learned a lot about not only each other but ourselves.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

I do have access to her phone just not very often and she always deletes everything before bed so while she is sleeping one night that she forgets to keep her phone beside her I can get it and install the spyware. She expressed her feeling differently than most people. She does not ever cry, I mean that's not a bad thing I guess but instead of crying she shuts down for a few hours and wants to be alone.

 

[IgrowUgrow]

I doubt she will go to therapy, she doesn't like talking about feelings.

 

[cjsbabygirl313]

She has to be willing to meet you in the middle or it just wont work - and you have to accept that it might not if she’s not willing to put in the effort to a strong and committed relationship. If she’s not, save yourself the heartache later by facing it now.