It all depends on how bad something is wanted.
For many years I would drive for hours across multiple states just to be with my girlfriend on the weekends.
I once drove from Toledo Ohio to Daytona Beach Fla in 24 hours on a Friday and then back again on the next Monday. After we married things did not change much. For several years I frequently drove round trip from Detroit Mi to Southern Va nearly every weekend. 10 hrs home on Friday and 10 hrs back on Sunday.
Complicated or not, things won't change until a line is drawn and a decision is made.