Another sad story

Will Ferrell

Will Ferrell

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curious2garden said:
It is that easy if you make it so. Always looking for 'why not' as opposed to how is how we guarantee failure. Let me guess you have 'suffered' from bouts of depression.
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Hmmmm, yes u can say that.
And if I wanted to poison my dog along with the rats, then yes it would have been very easy and handled long ago.
 
Singlemalt

Singlemalt

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Will, you just make excuses for any solution. You wish to revel in your angst. That's how I see it. There are a ton of modifications to all the solutions you've been given that can work. Use your god damned primate brain
 
Will Ferrell

Will Ferrell

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Singlemalt said:
Will, you just make excuses for any solution. You wish to revel in your angst. That's how I see it. There are a ton of modifications to all the solutions you've been given that can work. Use your god damned primate brain
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I admit i reap what I sow. I'm not the most ambitious person. I might be down right a bad person. I don't think I am. And it might be excuses I keep tossing out, but the way I see it, is its just more complicated than i can express. Idk I think your right to a degree
 
curious2garden

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Singlemalt said:
Will, you just make excuses for any solution. You wish to revel in your angst. That's how I see it. There are a ton of modifications to all the solutions you've been given that can work. Use your god damned primate brain
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I'm going with

LOL but I'm usually wrong

Edit: Waiting to be rescued, knowing a relationship is bad but not taking any definitive action etc.. This is often indicative of learned helplessness and usually you see depression as a comorbidity. Will go see a cognitive behavior therapist, see if they can help you wrestle through this.
 
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Indacouch

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Will Ferrell said:
Yes I remember that night. Highly medicated and sexually frustrated. I may have said too much that night. Good thing I was able to delete the thread before anyone could quote all the nasty things I said.
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All water under the bridge now .....wtf was living in your shed by the way
 
Will Ferrell

Will Ferrell

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curious2garden said:
Nope I was saying you are waiting to be rescued from your own life. You need to get active in your life. Win, lose or draw it can't be worse than passivity.
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Ok that makes more sense. That actually sounds pretty accurate.

It's a scary world out there for me. I've suffered from extreme anxiety for the past few years. Every time my dog barks my anxiety goes crazy. I don't feel comfortable away from the house. I don't know where to go. I've forgotten what it's like to just simply socialize normally in a casual setting. So clubs and bars are outta the question, I've never really cared for that scene anyway. I know a lot of people I sell to want to be friends with me, but I keep them at a distance for safety reasons, which keeps things pretty awkward. Idk, I do feel like the longer I'm single I feel more and more normal. But it's been a year and I'm still pretty fucked up in the head I think. I guess I've been in a stooper for so long, seems like all I ever do is complain. Sorry for that.
 
bu$hleaguer

bu$hleaguer

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Dude just chill out. Probably the best answer. Let yourself get over her- sometimes it takes a few months, sometimes it takes a few years, I don't know. Stop paying for her ass, and stop sending her green gifts that's for sure, you're only making yourself crazier by keeping the attachment. Sad to say it but she's moved on, it's your turn now. Get a hobby, something random that sounds interesting. Buy a few books on it and give it a whirl, it'll keep you mentally focused on something new for a change.
 
Blue Wizard

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Will Ferrell said:
It's a scary world out there for me. I've suffered from extreme anxiety for the past few years. Every time my dog barks my anxiety goes crazy. I don't feel comfortable away from the house. I don't know where to go. I've forgotten what it's like to just simply socialize normally in a casual setting.
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I've had extreme anxiety almost my entire life, like cripplingly so just 10-15 years ago and I still have some really bad attacks every now and then. But I can tell you that the only way you will ever get over it is to get out there and at least try. I know how hard it is but staying at home away from everybody isn't going to fix anything. I still have no idea how to socialize with people really but I do try, and apparently I come across as normal enough.
 
texasjack

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Blue Wizard said:
I've had extreme anxiety almost my entire life, like cripplingly so just 10-15 years ago and I still have some really bad attacks every now and then. But I can tell you that the only way you will ever get over it is to get out there and at least try. I know how hard it is but staying at home away from everybody isn't going to fix anything. I still have no idea how to socialize with people really but I do try, and apparently I come across as normal enough.
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Is that why you hang with transgenders?
 
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