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curious2garden

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Balzac89 said:
My siblings have all taken off. The closest one lives an hour away. The other lives in Boston.

They will take money from my parents, but they aren't around when they need them.

Biggest difference between me and my siblings is I never asked my parents for anything and I've always been the one who they rely on.
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Make sure you get some support while going through this. I'd ask about hospice for him. You've done all you can. It's hard to see other options and have the person you love reject them. You need support to let go. It's really tough Balzac and I'm proud of you for sticking through this. I remember you mentioning this quite sometime ago.
 
Hookabelly

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Balzac89 said:
He says he does not want to burden me. He knows I go to class full time and still work.
He really emotionally wrecked me on Saturday.

I've tried to help him.
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Aw, try not to internalize this. It's not a reflection on you, he's just immersed in his own pain. Don't feel like you failed him just because he won't accept any help. Those are HIS choices. Respect them and continue to visit him every couple of days. That is the only power you have.
 
curious2garden

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Hookabelly said:
Aw, try not to internalize this. It's not a reflection on you, he's just immersed in his own pain. Don't feel like you failed him just because he won't accept any help. Those are HIS choices. Respect them and continue to visit him every couple of days. That is the only power you have.
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^^^^ ++ rep probably the best real advice he'll get.
 
Elwood Diggler

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Balzac89 said:
I came to the realization awhile ago that he really is a stubborn person. I've tried to help him make better decisions, but he just seems to stick to the ones he made a long time ago. Like he made up his mind and that's the end of it.

He's unwilling to do almost anything to get help besides go to the hospital when he can't handle the pain anymore.
He won't quit smoking cigarettes, he won't stop eating junk food and meat. He won't seek any kind of professional help. I want to make it routine to stop and talk to him at least once a day.
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gramps was just like that. i got to the point that its just the way he sees it or remembers it, so to him, it's his reality. somehow made it easier if that makes sense
 
Bublonichronic

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Alright so in in kinda a mood right now, kinda bummed cause this chick iv liked for a long time pretty much stopped talkin to me , I though we had a lot in common and seemed to get along when I asked her if she wanted to hand out she said she was "down" then a couple times I actually tried to set up like a date or whatever she would say yea then cancel last minute...now she won't talk to me at all but I guess that's just the way it goes sometimes, I'm wondering am I really that ugly ? I'd like to think I'm atleast a 5...what do you ladies think, be brutally honest with me I'm a big boy I can take it,1-10
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mr sunshine

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Bublonichronic said:
Alright so in in kinda a mood right now, kinda bummed cause this chick iv liked for a long time pretty much stopped talkin to me , I though we had a lot in common and seemed to get along when I asked her if she wanted to hand out she said she was "down" then a couple times I actually tried to set up like a date or whatever she would say yea then cancel last minute...now she won't talk to me at all but I guess that's just the way it goes sometimes, I'm wondering am I really that ugly ? I'd like to think I'm atleast a 5...what do you ladies think, be brutally honest with me I'm a big boy I can take it,1-10
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After a few beers, Id let you suck my dick.
 
qwizoking

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There's some white stuff on your towel...it's not coke


Id prolly put the same light bulb in each socket


Oh and your soap is full.....you dirty boy
Wash your hands





Lose the bracelet. Raise the neck beard. Work out. Get properly fitted glasses. Skew your hair back over.

Why is this such a common thing. Skywalker , dank. Where are the girls with no self confidence. I like them better than the dudes



(edit. Like last pic of your hands. Nail beds not looking too healthy. Circulation probs?)
 
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Bublonichronic

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qwizoking said:
There's some white stuff on your towel...it's not coke


Id prolly put the same light bulb in each socket


Oh and your soap is full.....you dirty boy
Wash your hands





Lose the bracelet. Raise the neck beard. Work out. Get properly fitted glasses. Skew your hair back over.

Why is this such a common thing. Skywalker , dank. Where are the girls with no self confidence. I like them better than the dudes



(edit. Like last pic of your hands. Nail beds not looking too healthy. Circulation probs?)
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Are you suggesting I shave just my neck ? I feel like that would look weird...
 
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