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treemansbuds

treemansbuds

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TWS said:
I'm with you rube . I want to be a nicer person inside or feel better about life. I forgot what it's like . The fast pace of life has taken those things away.
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Sounds like you need to take jj up on his offer and get to the mountains. That SoCal pace of life will kill you, or drive you crazy. When I go back to SoCal I can't wait to get the fuck out of there. I'm good for a day or two, but after that I want back on the farm.
TMB-
 
redeyedfrog

redeyedfrog

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ruby fruit said:
I just need to work harder at not stressing to much it does my family no gd when I do they avoid me like the plague.Im a very giving person materially but need to work on the mental side of giving more.Working away no matter how good the coin is has made me into a cold person sometimes to friends but ive always been a person who likes spending time by myself you cant change that can you ...
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There's nothing wrong with me time as long as others don't suffer because of it.
Yeah man shift work can suck the life outta yah! Point is you are here for a very short time in the scheme of things and how do you want to spend that time?
Our attitudes are a matter of choices we make the moment we open our eyes and jump outta bed, do I choose to wake up be nice to my wife, smile and say good morning to my bastard of a neighbor, offer to make my workmates a coffee, let the old lady with a walking pram get in front of me in line at woolies, give the homeless dude a dollar, tell my kids how much they mean to me, tell myself I'm a good person and I deserve a great life, put my hand up and tell my boss I'll do the extra work because it needs to be done. These are all things that humble me and make me a better person a better dad a better worker and more importantly it makes others around me feel good too. I choose to wake up and say I'm grateful and glad to be here. I can't always do that but I try my best to be humble, grateful and to make those around me happy which in turn makes me happier.
 
ruby fruit

ruby fruit

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redeyedfrog said:
There's nothing wrong with me time as long as others don't suffer because of it.
Yeah man shift work can suck the life outta yah! Point is you are here for a very short time in the scheme of things and how do you want to spend that time?
Our attitudes are a matter of choices we make the moment we open our eyes and jump outta bed, do I choose to wake up be nice to my wife, smile and say good morning to my bastard of a neighbor, offer to make my workmates a coffee, let the old lady with a walking pram get in front of me in line at woolies, give the homeless dude a dollar, tell my kids how much they mean to me, tell myself I'm a good person and I deserve a great life, put my hand up and tell my boss I'll do the extra work because it needs to be done. These are all things that humble me and make me a better person a better dad a better worker and more importantly it makes others around me feel good too. I choose to wake up and say I'm grateful and glad to be here. I can't always do that but I try my best to be humble, grateful and to make those around me happy which in turn makes me happier.
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I find as im getting older I have more patience for the less well off elderly and in general ppl who don't get to go home to WHATEVER food they want to eat cos they cant afford it.Work pay each month blows my mind but I definitely lost something that I need to find again...all my BROS here we are one and the same or we wouldn't keep coming back to chat.Im going to the spa to my topless wife for beers adios!!
 
Vnsmkr

Vnsmkr

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ruby fruit said:
I find as im getting older I have more patience for the less well off elderly and in general ppl who don't get to go home to WHATEVER food they want to eat cos they cant afford it.Work pay each month blows my mind but I definitely lost something that I need to find again...all my BROS here we are one and the same or we wouldn't keep coming back to chat.Im going to the spa to my topless wife for beers adios!!
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I think your point of not sweatting the small things is going to bring back that thing you think you lost....Just as my mate told me, its just all lifes bullshit trying to smother it the fuck out, but its there waiting to be set free.

Exact words: You never lost it bro it's inside screaming to get out just life's bullshit is strangling it.
 
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