No offense, I am going to give you my take on the situation. I'm pretty logical so this should work well for you worble, because I know you're a smart guy who can understand this.
First mistake: You asked where he lived.
Second mistake: You threatened physical violence against another human being.
Third mistake: You threatened physical violence against his friends.
Fourth mistake: You're throwing the fact that they are gay into the mix... Gay bashing? I haven't heard of that occurring since 1990s in the redneck parts of various states.
Fifth mistake: You threated to commit a federal crime and DoS his computer.
All in all that is 5 infractions. Could probably add more consider the risk you put everyone and our community in by even posting those things here. So being the smart guy that you are, how could you honestly think that right now you're going to get back on RIU? I think you should learn tolerance, and patience -- regardless of whether or not you think another member is annoying, underage, stupid, whatever.
This world is filled with different people- straight, gay, bisexual, white, black, asian, hispanic, middle eastern, and all of them deserve to be treated with respect. You need to find acceptance in humanity.
Just my two cents, like I said - I don't want to come off as being mean to you, I just feel like you're entitled to know why people feel the way they do about what you posted.
Wishing the best for you!