What I know is that we did what he had to do to get by otherwise it was live on the street. I don't expect you or anyone else to believe this, but we were turned down for food stamps and government assistance. Don't ask for the details as they are vague and my mother doesn't like to speak of those times so my information is what we lived through and what I did to try and help.
Was it right? No, never said or pretended it was. But I'd like to think I've done far more good than bad. How many people do you know that go and help at the homeless shelter and donate money? Or if I see someone on the side of the street and its raining I'll go to the nearest store and buy them an umbrella.
Were there other options? Probably, but when you live in those conditions most logic goes out the window when you are trying to find your next meal.
The comparison of our lives wasn't meant to mean that I know of your struggles as I don't and I would never ask as that is your story to tell if you want to tell it. I shared my story for the simple fact I was on the bottom and now I'm not because I worked very hard for it. My comparison was meant to just say I know you haven't had the same childhood as myself that is all. Sometimes I can be cryptic so for that, I apologize.