i would disagree.
for racism to be anything other than mere slurs and attitudes, it really must be institutionalized. institutionalization of racism is where the rubber meets the road, it is where harm occurs, it is where one race is held back by another in a systemic way.
blacks can use slurs against whites all they want while whites say nothing back, but at the end of the day, almost every aspect of the black person's life is made worse by the actions of white people in power. everything from a job application being considered less to a car being pulled over more often to a harsher sentence being applied for the same crime, all without a single slur ever uttered.
i did not mean for this thread to go down this road, but it is an interesting conversation to be had.