you can save her? i swear i would completly change the soil it's in. if your on a budget buy even some cheap potting soil, mix in some perlite($2 at wallyworld). very , very gently remove her w/o breaking the roots, dip her in some distilled water, i would rinse all the dirt off as possible, this must be done w/ kind hands!! buy some schultz take root ( i just used schultz as an example, their are others as good or better, but schultz you can buy at wallyworld), get a paper plate put the take root on the plate, enough to coat your roots and i'd even put some on the stalk about 4 inches up cus you should transplant it as deep as you can covering the 4"'s or so that the take root is on the stem. water it in genly as was suggested earlier, let the soil abosorb slowly. i water till i see alittle coming out the bottom. i never go more than 1/8 strenght on fertilizer. you can save her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!