Sure but its not pretty lol.Is #1 caused by #2?
Can you elaborate on #1? It describes someone very close to me and I'd love to know more about the rationale there. No judging, just curious..
Wait- I think you ARE the person I referenced in my OP. That's the EXACT same rationale he gives. It makes sense though. I hate phonies as well. Don't you find that the older you get the less tolerance you have for pretentious assholes? I've always had a lot of male friends for that reason. Usuallly guys are pretty straight forward. Unless, as my husband puts it you get the "SOOO, what do you do?" the minute you meet someone. (He absolutely hates that. Deal breaker for him. Point of no return.) I mean why not ask "Hey how much $ do you make?" Geez.Sure but its not pretty lol.
I only enjoy being around sincere people that i know have no agenda.
I hate the fake small talk ant trying to impress each other.
In general I get over stimulated around people than my brain spins long after the encounter.
Just knowing I have to interact with someone makes me anxious and that sets me up to be mean.
Just easier n more pleasant to avoid people.
Exactly.Wait- I think you ARE the person I referenced in my OP. That's the EXACT same rationale he gives. It makes sense though. I hate phonies as well. Don't you find that the older you get the less tolerance you have for pretentious assholes? I've always had a lot of male friends for that reason. Usuallly guys are pretty straight forward. Unless, as my husband puts it you get the "SOOO, what do you do?" the minute you meet someone. (He absolutely hates that. Deal breaker for him. Point of no return.) I mean why not ask "Hey how much $ do you make?" Geez.
Thanks for clarifying.
I love people but am incapable of BS, so I have very few close friends. Even fewer close women friends. :-/
seriously tho, you get to a certain age and people are just ….ugh!. I thought I'd never be jaded or cynical and for the most part I'm a happy very positive person. It's just that you look for similar traits in others and they either want to complain endlessly about their totally voluntary baggage or worse, blather on about themselves, only pausing to ask YOU in a superficial way so they can get that perfunctory question politely out of the way in order to turn the convo. back to them.Match .com in this bitch !
i'm abrasive
i drink too much
i have recurring nightmares and punch in my sleep
now you go
I drink very littlei drink too much\
i drink way to much
i drink lots
Wait- why is #1 a "worse" attribute?My naked body is good looking
I have trouble spelling the word Stockholmes.
I only give 60 or so percents...