As an eating disorder sufferer, fat on my own body let alone that of some on top of me, gives me panic attacks. However, if someone doesn't give that girl some loving, then that's sad... But would it be more cruel to have a one night stand or fwb then leave her all alone again? Especially if she is a nice person. I don't hate fat people, and some are like that due to medical conditions but I personally couldn't. I hate the fact that makes me seem so shallow, because why should I be critical and picky when I want to hack pieces of myself off sometimes? Beggars can't be choosers I guess..