well it's official

I'm divorced !!!!!! Happy to be out of it. But sad to have a divorce under my belt at 23.

damn...lol why did you get married in the first place?? i dont even bother these days cause i know how it always ends up

haha thats crazy, shappends (shit-hapends)

I always pictured getting married to someone I actually love, but as I progress the though of that is quickly dwindling, ugh, kinda sad to me actually - my view on women in general too

idk thought it was a good idea everything was cool until a couple months ago when I told her I wasn't ready for kids. And I'm not, I know I have alot more growing up to do before I think about a kid.

Ouch, but I can understand, it will be a LONG time till I'm ready for a kid, if it even ever happens.

damn, you should have just named this thread "depression" haha im jk

Well congratulations ..... (?)lol

Yeah .. I never understood the real point in the whole marriage deal. If you're so confident you're gonna spend the rest of your life with a person, then that should be enough...

BreatheSmoke said:

Well congratulations ..... (?)lol

Yeah .. I never understood the real point in the whole marriage deal. If you're so confident you're gonna spend the rest of your life with a person, then that should be enough...

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It has to involve legal assets and money somehow, ya know? But you're right, that confidence should be enough.

She didn't want nothing from me I got the house she just wanted out. Plus she wanted to move back to her hometown and I didn't so there she went as of this morning. Prob make it easier now she won't see me whoring around and dammit I'm going to be doing some whoring

Marriage is over rated. If you want to be with someone just be with them. Marriage makes for a nice legal mess at the end. One good thing about Florida, all it takes is 30 days and your divorced. In other states they make you separate for a minimum of a year and then you can divorce, it just drags it out...

Congrats on your divorce, be happy.

Thanx and I'm very happy. Now it's just me my dog and my ladies that never yell at me and are willing to give their life for me to be high.

Word to the mutha fucking street. I got kids older than 23, got div'd at 40. Thought it was the end like I was a granpaw. Tried rolling in clubs like when I was bartending in my 20's Wrong. Chilled playing a bunch of tennis and met a bunch of fun hot young woman. Only good advice is play hard now. You get no do overs.

haha man,good way to put it! Don't woory bout' it man,got a house and a grow your good to go...

that's the way I see it and a bad ass house at that. My backyard is the beach.

volcomi18 said:

... and dammit I'm going to be doing some whoring

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hahaha yeaa son!

to that

passdabong said:

It has to involve legal assets and money somehow, ya know? But you're right, that confidence should be enough.

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Right !! It's just straight up complication of something so simple - love... If you love someone, you will be there for them.... Simple as that....

I also don't believe in funerals. When I die, I don't want my family to spend thousands of dollars just to put my lifeless body 6 feet under...

It's just odd to me how people spend so much money on things that are so beyond materialism ... [Love and death...]...

It's just a personal satisfaction thing.. But also something that most people don't put much thought in. I thought about it a lot .. and I tell everyone I know all the time that I don't want a funeral if I were to die...and I will never get married.

I know I'm done trying to get married. At least for a long long time. I don't want a funeral either. Spread my ashes at jax beach, and then a party to celebrate my life.

people get married for tax purposes.

normally i'd say "aw, im sorry" but seems you are happy about it, so congrats! how long were you married??

but on a side note, marriage (imo at least) is just symbolism..... sure you dont have to get married and can just be together, but marriage is symbolic of your unwavering devotion to the other person; seals the deal so to speak...
i believe the problem with marriage to be that people jump into it way too easy; after the sex dies down (doesnt take long), they realize that they really dont like/love this person as much as they thought they did, and its all downhill from there....