so i got a date tomorrow... nervous

he's really funny, sweet, kind, hella smart... but 8 years older than me. im excited but at the same time i have misgivings
A) I have feelings for another guy-but we arent talking anymore
B) Im kinda talking to this one guy and he's fucked up alot and hurt me, but he's moving to my town and Im kinda considering giving him a chance
c) Ive only ever kissed one guy before (numerous occaisions however)... what if im not all that good, or not on the same level as him...
Anyway this guy loves that im big, thinks im sexy, smart, funny... Just hella nervous

give in..

ahaha i swear this guy is perfect... which makes me more nervous. only flaw is that he is 5'4... i can overlook that

Urca said:

ahaha i swear this guy is perfect... which makes me more nervous. only flaw is that he is 5'4... i can overlook that

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nothing a stool cant fix.

haha im 5'2 anyway so its all good. he's just like waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy older than me

as long as your over 18 go for it. it will at least give you a chance to learn an experience or two

i never dated Older, i agree with this say that goes, age is a number not personality.

0011StealTH said:

i never dated Older, i agree with this say that goes, age is a number not personality.

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i meant older as in more than 3 years older

every guy i have been somewhat involved with has been at least 4 years older, mostly its five or more years....

theres a reason the guys going for girls so much younger then him.Hes more then likely a fucking weirdo and you should move on.

lol well ill find out

Urca said:

lol well ill find out

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thats fucking brilliant

i know when i heard about it i was like.... god damn it

haha you know how many women get raped in africa?? this is a god send! aids rates will go way down with this thing

or everyone will turn guy cus every girl has razors in her vagina

haha if its consensual she will remove it and they can have fun

Urca i think and older man is what u need, someone who is a bit more experienced then u might be able to offer u some real fun,(and a certain level of comfort and confidence that i feel u would benefit from). I've dated older men ( my ex was 9 yrs older then me) and honestly i prefer an older guy to one my age or younger, but again age is only a number.

april said:

Urca i think and older man is what u need, someone who is a bit more experienced then u might be able to offer u some real fun,(and a certain level of comfort and confidence that i feel u would benefit from). I've dated older men ( my ex was 9 yrs older then me) and honestly i prefer an older guy to one my age or younger, but again age is only a number.

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i'm older than you april... lol... but yah, i agree, i think an older guy would be good for you as well..

like i said, most guys i am interested in or have a chance with are at least five years older... but im kinda pumped to see him... hella charming guy.