New grow need help *PICS*

i just started growing this about a month or a little more ago and it is growing kind of slow but thats b.c ive been swapping lights and stuff i think but right now i only have 2 cfl one 150w warm white and other cool white 100w i probly need more but thats all i can aford now i also have a fan blowing but not constintly. the plant isnt looking very healthy either the leaves are curling and seem dry? idk why..... also can u tell if it is male or female b4 flowering stage?

please help, comments suggestions anything
thanks ahead of time

Sweet, your growing that Casper strain! I hear that's some good smoke.

Are the leaves curling at the ends and getting crispy?

You could have some heating issue.

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