Male or Female??

hello, thanks for reading. im trying to figure out if its male or female. new grower. also, was wondering what those tiny dark dots are on some of the leaves?? Thank you.
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How many growth nodes so far, 4? You might have to wait till the 5-6 nodes grow in to tell for sure. Then again, I could be just blind.

if you see white hairs coming out of the part where the branch/fan leaf meets the main stem, its a girl. i cant tell if its a boy or a girl, wait another week and it should be pretty easy to tell. i can show you the difference with a picture.

this is a boy, grown for his pollen


and this is a girl, notice the white hairs. should be visible on the node highest to the light source.

The dots on the leaves look like thrip or spidermites from what I can see. Look under a 30x to know for sure...look on the underside of the leaves too

We need more close up pics of the nodes. There is only one pic showing and it looks female.

second picture 3rd node up on the left hand side looks like a calyx poking out. Looks female to me