Don’t be a smart ass Palawan
He wasn't - you seriously didn't notice how much diff. he looked from his sisters?
edit - forgot details, thanks bong!
-Male - IMHO, early on looks like little striped melons in the crotch of the upper branches. Bunches of melons form, then flower & spill pollen.
-Female - spade shaped early on, Pistils (white hairs) sprout.
-Hermaphrodite (Genetic) - Pistils & balls - a full set of both parts.
-Hermaphrodite (Stress / other) - Bananas in the buds
Also - you really can't avoid ball jokes on a male / female thread - you just can't...