Im going to be an aunt!

so im really happy to announce that my sister told me she was pregnant today. i mean, i've got my own worries and reservations about her keeping the baby, but either way im really happy for her. Im loading a bowl right now to celebrate my little neice or nephew.

quick concern: she didnt know she was pregnant for a while, smoked alot of weed, drank alot of alcohol. even took e once. she is 6 weeks along. if she cleans up her act now, the baby will be fine right? she's only 19, really healthy.

Well i cany awnser the question due to me not being a doctor but i do want to say congradulations

there is no point in this thread anymore. she decided to get an abortion.

So how do you feel about this????but i guess its her decision....

Ask her not to murder the baby, maybe you can volenteer to be a mom and not an aunt.

cannabinoids do not cross the placenta or w/e with mutagenic effects however alcohol and e both do, alcohol being the lead cause of birth defects and the like. I guess its not relevant anymore but just for future reference. im sorry you got so excited only to have it taken away >_<

i always thought i didnt support abortion, that it was evil and wrong... but now, i dont know how i feel. I was so excited and happy to be an aunt, and when she told me that it was the best choice to abort i cried. but she made several valid points... she doesnt have a car, wouldnt have a place to raise a baby, doesnt love her bf (only been together for about 2 months), only works 15 hours a week... it would be cruel to a baby to start off life so deprived. but it makes me so sad to know there is a little person who i will never get to meet, a part of my family i will never get to know

This is sad ...but we live in a sad world at times...

Sorry for the news but IMO
Tell your sister if she doesn't want kids get on the pill and quit killing babies.

When people decide to make that decision they really should stay quite about the whole thing.

I'm all for choice but don't put your business out there to be judged.

Its sooo sad... My cousin with an age of 20 is also pregnant for 3 months... But they decided to get marry this June.