I need some advice :(

Ok this might seem like a lame thread but i need as much advice as possible.....Plain out, My girlfriend and I are not on the best terms and I need some ideas on trying to make things right again...They could be ideas that you came up with or ideas that your girl/boy friend has come up with I just need something here...Please no flaming Im really hurting over here and just need some help....

If you need more info ill be glad to provide, i just need to do something to make things right again...

First of all, what happened?

need more details.. wat happened.

and basically.. just kiss ass.

Cry and beg , What did you do wrong ,, we need detail's ,,Get typing ..Pour it out

Totally depends on what the problem is...

But no female is worth this...

We went to the Dave Matthews concert over the weekend and everything was fine until the concert...Tailgating we got all drunk of course then we went to the concert...about 15 min later i went and got us some beer then went back to where every one was..Got there then she came up all drunk and spilled one of the beers(8$ might i add) then i got pissed started bitching at her for being a little out of hand and she got even more pissed and spilled the other beer out of my hand..I started walking away and she tried grabbing me and i kept shooing her off until finally she punched me right in the face...She was lost for 3 hours barefoot and cold and didnt get to see the concert...me neither...But i feel bad because she was lost, had a sprained ankle from trying to get me to come back, bare footed--now with cuts on her feet from glass, missed the concert she paid for, all because i was an idiot and walked away like a little girl because she spilled some damn beer..

Sounds like your girl cant handle her booze... Once someone becomes abusive and strikes the other,That is it , game over ... If it was me ..I would give her the cash she paid for the show , and send her packing,, or leave myself .. There is no going back after striking someone.. 1st time shame on you , 2nd time shame on me.... OR cut the drinking out and move on... Grow from it .. Its your heart....You need to make the choice... There are many fish's in the sea ... I caught mine and I was not even fishing .. Good luck Bro....

yea, wat Vette said. but if you do want to make up, have a talk with n say sumtin how you both were wrong, and you wanna make everything right.

but if she acts like a bitch... then iduno, you decide after that lol

you both probably feel the same way!!! make it right by being a man and going to talk to her!!! all i got!!! hope things work out!!!!

I agree completely with you all....She broke up with over it because she tried so hard making sure we saw it together, she paid for everything and I ruined it, she was lost and scared for three hours w/ a sprained ankle, I left because a spilled beer, when we saw each other later i was an ass and called her a bitch n shit for punching me, we can never drink and not fight...etc.. Im pissed because I think SHE ruined my first concert,and punched me in the face...I just think this is all my fault and never wouldve happened if i didnt get pissed that she spilled the beer..I know i ruined our expierence together and that can never be replaced...I just dont know what to do...I tried talking to her and apologizing for everything and telling her its my fault but she keeps hanging up...she just keeps saying dont call me because she knows she'll give in if shes talks to me

I say just chalk it up on the booze and move on.

Well going to the dave matthews concert was a mistake to begin with. I just kidd, but it seem like since there isnt one concrete thing wrong with you two, there isnt one thing anybody could say that would fix it. It could be that you are both cool people, but you just dont have the same way of thinking or dealing with things and therefor get into confrontations.
Maybe you did act like a jerk, or maybe she just cant handle it when people dont respond to her the way she wants them to.

Yea you could be right....

Any girls out there with some opinions on this whole matter? What should i do, what shouldnt i do...Should i make her something apologetic? She I just let her be and see if she realizes we shouldnt of broken up?...ANything will help...

smokablunt16 said:

Yea you could be right....

Any girls out there with some opinions on this whole matter? What should i do, what shouldnt i do...Should i make her something apologetic? She I just let her be and see if she realizes we shouldnt of broken up?...ANything will help...

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give me her # I'll call and talk to her .. I'll make it right for you Bro...

Do you want to stay together? Besides getting some sex do you really think you want to be with her and that she is the one who will make you happy? Is this more of a its better to be with her than to be alone relationships?

If she didnt break her phone throwing it because she was pissed at this thing then maybe...lol

i was wondeing if it is a good idea to cut the fan leaves off that are big to get more light to the buds and nodes im about 3-4 weeks into budding

valuablevariable said:

Do you want to stay together? Besides getting some sex do you really think you want to be with her and that she is the one who will make you happy? Is this more of a its better to be with her than to be alone relationships?

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I LOVE her with every damn piece of my heart whether she hit me or not...I couldnt be happy with anyone else and shes proven that..I would love everyday waking up next to her and starting a family with her no matter what...I know I might sound lame but this girl is the one and ill do what ever it takes to get her back..We have our rough times but weve always gotten through them but this ones a tuffy...

EDIT: She just called and was seeing if im okay? Then she said well try and have a good day at work...WTF???

smokablunt16 said:

I agree completely with you all....She broke up with over it because she tried so hard making sure we saw it together, she paid for everything and I ruined it, she was lost and scared for three hours w/ a sprained ankle, I left because a spilled beer, when we saw each other later i was an ass and called her a bitch n shit for punching me, we can never drink and not fight...etc.. Im pissed because I think SHE ruined my first concert,and punched me in the face...I just think this is all my fault and never wouldve happened if i didnt get pissed that she spilled the beer..I know i ruined our expierence together and that can never be replaced...I just dont know what to do...I tried talking to her and apologizing for everything and telling her its my fault but she keeps hanging up...she just keeps saying dont call me because she knows she'll give in if shes talks to me

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sounds like she's already got you feeling guilty. women excel at that; that is how they get their way. sure, you probably shouldn't have been an ass about the beer, but she punched you in the face. in my mind, that's game over right there. don't let her trick you with that sob story shit, just reimburse her for the ticket and say fuck it and move on.

Theres def some shit to clear up that you also shouldnt let her get away with. But first, you need to let her know your side of the story. Let her know how you saw the whole thing and why you felt angry.
95% sure she just sees it from her point of view, that you just got angry at her for no reason and that she was right to react the way she did etc.
Dont know exactly how it happened, but tell her how you were trying to make her happy and get some drinks and have a good time but then she just spillt everything and didnt seem to care or whatever and you were jsut upset because she didnt seem to care about what you thought would be a nice gesture...

Girls love to think they had the right to get angry that what they did was justified from their point of view