I found one afid yesterday and killed it and I found two today, as well as a beige grey round looking spider a bit bigger than a flee. It's leaving webs on the plants and I don't know if it's a spider mite or not. I have found some holes in the leaves, they look like tears or rips not like usual ones I have seen. Does any one know what these rips are, what the spider might be, and how to get rid of it and the afids. Any help would be greatly appriciated thanks