Going to crack under the pressure

Alright guys, here is the deal. I have a hard time to pick up girls unless I'm extremely intoxicated. Whenever I'm not high I have a bit of social anxiety and I get really anxious depending on where I am. I hate going to malls or crowded places, I pretty much get the sweats instantly. I think it's from using drugs nearly everyday from the time I entered highschool to the time I left.(i'm 20 now) but who knows. So I met this girl at the bar last night and I was pretty ripped..she gave me her number and junk and now I'm planning to take her out somewhere on a date..I don't really want to drink incase I got pulled over,it's 0 tolerance for me so even one beer and I'm screwed. I don't want her to know I'm high or anything like that either..what you guys think?

I think if she cares that your high, why would you want to spend time with her. Ive always had the same problems you listed but i was alway strait to girls about smoking pot, if they didnt like it then there not for me. maybe you will get luck and find out shes like my ol'lady and doesnt smoke but doesnt care that you do. lol your stash lasts longer that way lol

What have you got to lose man?! Talk to her, tell her that you're into her, and that will get the ball rolling, get nice an smelly, give her a sigle red rose and you'll be away laughing bro, and do it all with your own unique style, if she gave you her number, she'll dig it.

Like I said, in the worst case scenario you'll be back where you are now right? So go for it man. Put yourself in this uncomfortable situation and learn to love it. It's hard at first, but you will realise tht it is all worth it. Especially when she's leaning in for that first kiss