@ ganga gurl420

Indacouch

Indacouch

Well-Known Member
I'm sure TWS wouldn't go out of his way to openly make a thread just to apologize if he wasn't sincere about it .....or anyone for that matter
 
Olive Drab Green

Olive Drab Green

Well-Known Member
I hope she comes back. I don't have an issue with her, but regarding my interactions with her, she's pretty sensitive and quick to think people are hating on her if they give criticism or offer advice. Like, she gets defensive a little easy. She's alright people, though. Hopefully she cools off and comes back.
 
SoOLED

SoOLED

Well-Known Member
sorry if this comes off like a beeyach: but gangagurl? from what I read doesn't seem like anything they boys don say to each other. I'm on other cannabis sites, this and one other forum, I identify.

not that I really care, when girls pick names like sexygirl420, or XxGrowgirlxX. a lot can be avoided if you just picked a gender neutral name: GanjaGr0w5 that name would avoided a lot of the problems you had (from I have quickly skimmed) seemed like you were getting good feed back, and data. though in some posts, they outright reference your gender or "about it" it in posts. IMHO had your name not been GangaGurl., that would have been overlooked, and just posted about the topic or discussion with out reference.

I'm not saying cause you proverbially picked a "short skirt name" you deserved any of off handed remarks. but as a girl you know if you're in yoga pants in Starbuck's; you know the guy behind you is looking at your ass. get it?

then post about how the site is hostile and your leaving, is like throwing gas on the gender fire. the "A" typical victim. so TWS has to post a groveling post about things he would never do for a entity whos gender was unknown.

no reason to leave, if its that big of a problem just ignore the person. but so long as your name has gurl in it, you will get called on it, not always bad but better to avoid altogether.
 
ganga gurl420

ganga gurl420

Well-Known Member
Olive Drab Green said:
I hope she comes back. I don't have an issue with her, but regarding my interactions with her, she's pretty sensitive and quick to think people are hating on her if they give criticism or offer advice. Like, she gets defensive a little easy. She's alright people, though. Hopefully she cools off and comes back.
Click to expand...
Yup you are right. Thank you for pointing that out. Looks like I have some inner work to do on myself.
 
ganga gurl420

ganga gurl420

Well-Known Member
And an apology to the rest of you as well...used to have a thicker skin...this last yr has beat me down not that it's an excuse.
I'm really out of my element, and out of my league here. I'm sure I will pop in from time to time but I got to get some shit straight with me. You all are great
Have an awesome harvest guys!
And thanks again.
 
MjMama

MjMama

Well-Known Member
SoOLED said:
sorry if this comes off like a beeyach: but gangagurl? from what I read doesn't seem like anything they boys don say to each other. I'm on other cannabis sites, this and one other forum, I identify.

not that I really care, when girls pick names like sexygirl420, or XxGrowgirlxX. a lot can be avoided if you just picked a gender neutral name: GanjaGr0w5 that name would avoided a lot of the problems you had (from I have quickly skimmed) seemed like you were getting good feed back, and data. though in some posts, they outright reference your gender or "about it" it in posts. IMHO had your name not been GangaGurl., that would have been overlooked, and just posted about the topic or discussion with out reference.

I'm not saying cause you proverbially picked a "short skirt name" you deserved any of off handed remarks. but as a girl you know if you're in yoga pants in Starbuck's; you know the guy behind you is looking at your ass. get it?

then post about how the site is hostile and your leaving, is like throwing gas on the gender fire. the "A" typical victim. so TWS has to post a groveling post about things he would never do for a entity whos gender was unknown.

no reason to leave, if its that big of a problem just ignore the person. but so long as your name has gurl in it, you will get called on it, not always bad but better to avoid altogether.
Click to expand...
I get what you're saying about putting a target on our backs but I'm proud of the woman I am. Proud to be a female grower from before most girl started jumping into the grow game. Peoole will just have to embrace the women in growing the way we exist without hiding in the rest of the world.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top