first grow saggy leaves? *pics*

i just started growing this about a month or a little more ago and it is growing kind of slow but thats b.c ive been swapping lights and stuff i think but right now i have 4 cfls one 150w warm white and 3 daylight 100w i probly need more but thats all i can aford now i also have a fan blowing but not constintly. the plant isnt looking very healthy either the leaves are sagging and/or curling and seem dry? idk why..... also can u tell if it is male or female b4 flowering stage?

amswers comments suggestions anything
thanks ahead of time

looks like overwatering

yes i would say over watering also

and maybe u should keep swapping the lights around some much