Are these sacks or pre-flowers?

Out of my two flowering plants, only one is showing pistils. The other one, which was planted at the same time, is not showing any pistils. I also see these tiny balls that appear they MAY be pollen sacks or they MAY be developing preflowers. Unlike the pistils on the the other plant, these balls only appear on the one node in the photo and there are only two. I moved it out of the spot light so that my female can get all the light. I dont want to kill it until positive its male. The one in the red pot is the female. I also included a picture of my iguana being awesome

i cant even see anything in the pics.

When did you flip to 12/12. A couple of my plants developed hairs after 2 days and some took 8 after the flip.