FIRST OFF MAKE SURE UR FRIENDS UR GROWING WITH ALONG WITH URSELF TELL ABSOLUTELY NO ONE!!! SERIOUSLY, THAT SHIT GETS YOU CAUGHT UP. NOT EVEN UR GIRLFRIEND DONT TELL ANYONE THAT DOESNT NEED TO NOW I KNOW ITS COOL THAT UR GROWING AND U WANNA HAVE THE HIGHER HAND ON EVERYONE BUT IN THE LONG RUN...