Will Ferrell
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i sobered up
im drunk and am about to spill my guts
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Perfextionist420
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maybe you're one of those married mid life crisis turned gay guys, or maybe a troll I dunno which
Will Ferrell
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ugh.. lol thnx buddy
Will Ferrell
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so im either one or the other? OH MY FUCKING GOD
Will Ferrell
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...................... yeah and im being serious. if its too much for you, dont post anything. I would really just like to know what some of you think, only if your really fucking interested, not some little stupid jabs....wow the things people post
dont cheat on your wife. find a way to make it work, counseling.
Generally when women make it out to feel like a chore something is wrong emotionally in the marriage. what has gone wrong? thats for you 2 to figure out. i can garuntee that it isnt about sex though, something emotionally is going on between the 2 of you and its causing friction in your love life.
Generally when women make it out to feel like a chore something is wrong emotionally in the marriage. what has gone wrong? thats for you 2 to figure out. i can garuntee that it isnt about sex though, something emotionally is going on between the 2 of you and its causing friction in your love life.
Will Ferrell
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i think ur 100% right. there are things about me, that just started a few years ago, that are fucked up. we've never talked about it. but i know she knows, and she knows i know that she knows, and its extremely awkward at times. but its something i can absolutely never talk about with her or anyone, and years have gone by, and im hoping it will blow over, but it doesnt seem to be. and she's known about it all these years and is still with me, so i know she loves me. i just feel so fucked
Will Ferrell
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and sorry i had to delete the original post, ive sobered up some and reread what i wrote and, i may have been too blunt with some wording lol
Seriously, stop whacking off. She probably knows and could be hurt by it. To many people, porn is cheating too. Also, when you blow the baby batter something happens in your brain that makes you not want it anymore, and you will respond differently to those around you if you are whacking it all the time.
When was the last time you told her ass to get ready because you were going on a date, like a real date that you put real effort into, not just a programmed dinner and movie bullshit.
Do you argue much?
The ass thing, I would just set aside for now. Not that you have to be ashamed, just maybe might not be the best ice breaker to get your relationship going again. Get it back on track and she should be happy to do it simply because she loves you and wants to make you happy.
When was the last time you told her ass to get ready because you were going on a date, like a real date that you put real effort into, not just a programmed dinner and movie bullshit.
Do you argue much?
The ass thing, I would just set aside for now. Not that you have to be ashamed, just maybe might not be the best ice breaker to get your relationship going again. Get it back on track and she should be happy to do it simply because she loves you and wants to make you happy.
well obviously whatever that is is the problem
Will Ferrell
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yea, its become a horrible addiction. ive been tryin to quit for quite sometime now. i dont think she cares all that much about it, ive walked in on her before too. which i no is sad and how could our relationship have come to this and blah blah blah. but yeas i think i should definately stop whacking it.
its been along time man, but in my defense, i am the more outgoing one. i do try to get her to get out and do stuff. she's very introverted, which in time, has caused me to become a bit of a recluse. But yes ive thoughr about doing stuff like that, not sure if she would like it, and not sure if it would remotely help my issues
we dont really ever argue at all, and if we do its always about something really stupid, like her stupid shows, or who took the last hit of weed lol
that was me being drunk and really spilling it all lmao. ugh, yea its embarrassing to me, ill just leave that one tucked away i guess...
Will Ferrell
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im so retarded. u made it seem as simple as pie. im just fucked
Will Ferrell
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no i think everything is all good. thank you so much for the responses. i feel like i know what i need to do. but idk if i can do it haha /hopes this thread dies away fast
Balzac89
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rowlman
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sobering up and rereading shit we post later is all part of the fun! we should only get like five minutes, then its there for everyone to read forever! peace, hope everything worked out for you.
Commander Strax
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lame !!!!!!
