Who here is married?

Coming up on 8 years...can't say it's the wisest decision I've ever made...lol, it does take effort.

Fortunately I've been blessed with two wonderful children which makes it all worth while.
 

Zaehet Strife

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I think it's great to see how many years a person can be faithful to someone else. I would love to experience something like that, but at the age of 27 i'm not so sure if that is going to happen. The woman i am with right now seems like marriage material... but i think marriage is kind of an outdated religious practice... so unless it give us some kind of financial benefit, insurance, or medical, dental etc. i don't see me doing it ever. Although, just because we aren't married, doesn't mean that we cant spend every waking moment together and live out our entire lives with each other, being faithful to each other the whole while. The girl im with, i think i can do that without a doubt, hopefully things go as good as they have been.
 

neosapien

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Twil be 2 years next month for me. So far it's been sublime. Couldn't imagine my life would turn out how it has, and now can't imagine it any other way.
 

madmonk

Member
Wow you sound like me or I like you.......Im common-law married to my hs babe for 21 yrs.....im 40,shes 39......we have 4 kids(3g,1b)....we only argue about petty shit.....usually im at fault...........I also am an asshole but one of those guys everybody likes:lol:...........
I have learned a very long time ago that it is easier to ask for forgiveness than it is for permission.Works for me!:lol:
 

B166ER420

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Neo,man I thought about you and your diaper changing thread:):)......and what you have coming...possibly.....my son still needs help wiping.....I mean its all fun and games when they're little, ya know, still in diapers....but that nasty litttle sucker is 4 years old and takes bigger shits than me:)...all he eats is chocolate chip waffles and chocolate milk...and I don't enjoy helping him wipe his ass:)....but hey,it's called being a loving father:eyesmoke:peace
 

Guitar Man

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Been 32 years between the lady and I. She is my friend of all friends, and I can't imagine living without her. It would be the saddest day of my life if anything ever happened to my beautiful, loving wife.
 

Doobius1

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To quote Kurt Cobain.....'Married, Buried'

Ive given half my stuff away twice. Thats all my stuff once
 

eye exaggerate

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I have been married for almost three years. Sometimes it sure does feel like an accomplishment to be able to say that.
..."teehee" - to quote the Bear :)


...holy crap it gets worse














:)


(and if you're old enough you've figured out that this means it gets better at the same time)
 

Zaehet Strife

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I will never understand how someone can have sexual relations with just one person for years upon years without getting bored... Maybe i'm just fucked up in the head or something i don't know, but it would make me sick to fuck just one girl for the rest of my life... couldn't do it.
 

NietzscheKeen

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Most people are polyamorous. They are just socialized into believing that they are supposed to be with one person for the rest of their lives. I think it is related to the number of D2 receptors in the brain. The more a person has, the more polyamorous they are; the fewer, the more monogomous. Same with wild animals, animals that mate for life have fewer D2 receptors and those that have many partners have more receptors.

I was married and never cheated, but I sure wanted too a few times. It's a natural thing. That's why I got into swinging. You can still have a great relationship... even better actually, and spice it up by bringing in others to satisfy those needs for variety, etc. Plus, the friends I've made in the lifestyle are some of the best friends I've ever made. I think sex brings a depth to friendship that you just can't get with platonic friends. You just have to be open and honest with each other and if you aren't totally secure in your relationship... don't do it. It's not going to FIX a relationship... just make it more better.

Also, research has shown that women cheat more than men... MORE than men most likely because it is easier for them. They like to find a guy that treats them well and has "resources". They will stay with them, but then sneak off with someone they find physically attractive. Men just like to have as many women as they can, it's in the genes of every male species.


Anyway, religion and society have tried to turn us into what we aren't. This is one reason we have so many psychological issues. My theories go a lot more indepth than this, they aren't pretty and most people don't like to think about them, but now is not the time.
 
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