Ah fuck it, I'll tell it now.
Over two years ago, my brother in law and my sister, mostly my brother in law, were busted growing weed outdoors. Basically, a friend who my brother in law was helping out by showing him what he learned online, basically the same way we do, got caught and to get out of his jam he whore a wire to my sisters home looking for weed and offering to pay for it out of the norm. Needless to say they were busted and charged. Up until now I was looking at being in Amsterdam while they were at their first hearing and likely hearing sentences too, up until the other day when I learned that prosecuting attorneys are giving them both a deal with only short probation for both. You guys couldn't imagine the thought of my sister in prison, never mind the nicest brother in law a man could have, and this news is just so sweet for me right now. I've never said anything on here because of the sensitivity of it but I don't think I have to be too concerned/paranoid now.
Heads up, I hope that time has been on your side and that what is starting to happen has an affect on how people are thinking and that it will be the salvation you need right now.