The wife to be wants a 'break' - The Relationship Thread

[slowbus]

you got it man.Just don't move to Alaska and you'll find another one

 

[lokie]

lol hardly.

i just know whats up with skanks posing as women who do shit like this to guys, thinking its all good. they deserve to be treated with the utmost contempt, before they enact the next phase of their all too obvious plans: dump the guy and then insert him into the "friend zone" and take further advantage of him while they go out and have sex with every other guy they can, till they get pregnant, squeeze out a few babies and turn into fat, ugly, angry bitches....
beta guys need to learn how to properly treat a bitch.

you dont get any quality pussy do you.

you talk like a man with a paper asshole.

 

[Edgar9]

Girls, especially girls and not women want to call up their friends and brag about how great their boyfriends are.

I'll say it again. You toke, she doesn't. Major problem IMO. Even worse is that she quit and you still partake. That means you're the devil as far as her friends are concerned, whether they're near or far.

Unless you're making a lot of money there are not many gals out there that are going to call up their friends and brag about you if you're a stoner and she's not. I'd put money on the line that other people are influencing her decisions. Could be the lady in the hair salon, hometown friends, etc.

Wouldn't be the first time a gal has been talked out of a relationship by other people. Especially when you're engaged. That's a lot of pressure. She just couldn't take it IMO.

Chill on the herbs a little bit. Maybe once a week partake. Hit the gym, eat healthy and reinvent yourself for the next time. Don't think of yourself as a stoner. That's not going to attract women.

Personnally I haven't partaken in months and I can say that some of the stoners I have to deal with are starting to bug me. High people can be a hassle to work with when trying to get shit done. I like growing more than using, and no I don't deal. I actually won't be able to grow for a couple of years b/c of the owner here not allowing it. That's why I like this site. I can experience growing through you guys and gals. It's like grow porn.

Go hit the gym, go for a run. Get some exercise to clear your mind. Whatever you do, don't start drinking!!

 

[DrOfWelshMagic]

dont sound good dude, breaks are usually wanted when one or other wants out! IN MY EXPERIENCE!!! (and i've had a few lol). hope it works out for you dude..

 

[TigerClock]

Sounds to me like a lose of interest....

 

[pmumbry]

You mean I don't wear a wife-beater and spend my time online calling women bitches or bragging about needing to "slap a ho"?

Grow up.

why are you putting "slap a ho" in quotes like that? i didn't say that at all in any of my posts.

i see how you play now, putting words in peoples mouth and trying to make them look bad by quoting them as saying shit they didn't say. fuck you you beta bitch boy. i bet you are married to one of these bitches i described, who pushed out a bunch of kids (most of which probably aren't even yours) and is using your beta ass as a source of child support.

 

[PuffinChronic]

Thanks for all your advice people and inisight people!

Puff.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

why are you putting "slap a ho" in quotes like that? i didn't say that at all in any of my posts.

i see how you play now, putting words in peoples mouth and trying to make them look bad by quoting them as saying shit they didn't say. fuck you you beta bitch boy. i bet you are married to one of these bitches i described, who pushed out a bunch of kids (most of which probably aren't even yours) and is using your beta ass as a source of child support.

Ever heard of paraphrasing?

Actually he's gay, part of the reason all us women love him. That and he is a beautiful human being, sexuality aside) Funnily enough, it is a man with no want or need for female attention who possesses all the skill or insight for acquiring it- something you, sir, do not.

He's got style
He's got game
He knows how to treat a lady

And probably has bigger balls than some of these straight dudes who need 'slap a ho' talk to look the part.

 

[robert 14617]

i love him too he is a huge asset to this community,

 

[RainbowBrite86]

OK first of all...Carne is an awesome member and an amazing person.

Second, I have requested such a break as this one from a s/o before. We did end up staying together. And it wasn't because I wanted to break off the relationship, I just needed to have my own adventures for a minute. Distance IS hard though. It takes a strong couple to overcome it.

 

[Carne Seca]

why are you putting "slap a ho" in quotes like that? i didn't say that at all in any of my posts.

i see how you play now, putting words in peoples mouth and trying to make them look bad by quoting them as saying shit they didn't say. fuck you you beta bitch boy. i bet you are married to one of these bitches i described, who pushed out a bunch of kids (most of which probably aren't even yours) and is using your beta ass as a source of child support.

This coming from the guy that thought I was female.

You really think I put those in quotes to make it look like you said it? When anyone with ANY sense can look it up for themselves? It was a general statement about your type of mentality. You refer to women as bitches. Calling one a ho isn't much of a stretch and I'm dead certain you've said it a time or two. Once again, maybe the problem is you? After all, I'm not the one calling names and trying to belittle someone that has a differing opinion. Keep ASSuming. It just digs your grave a little deeper each time.

 

[Carne Seca]

Ever heard of paraphrasing?

Actually he's gay, part of the reason all us women love him. That and he is a beautiful human being, sexuality aside) Funnily enough, it is a man with no want or need for female attention who possesses all the skill or insight for acquiring it- something you, sir, do not.

He's got style
He's got game
He knows how to treat a lady

And probably has bigger balls than some of these straight dudes who need 'slap a ho' talk to look the part.

OK first of all...Carne is an awesome member and an amazing person.

Second, I have requested such a break as this one from a s/o before. We did end up staying together. And it wasn't because I wanted to break off the relationship, I just needed to have my own adventures for a minute. Distance IS hard though. It takes a strong couple to overcome it.

i love him too he is a huge asset to this community,

awww.. you guys! I love you too.

shucks ::blush:: kick a rock.

 

[guy incognito]

We just moved to a small town away from the city (Vancouver, B.C.) 4 months later she says she need some space and is moving back to the city at the end of the month. Claims that she wants us to be together still just living apart (400 miles apart)... Been together for 4.5 yrs and got engaged last summer, no kids (thank god). Is it just me or is there anyone else out there that thinks that it's few and far between a couple breaks and gets back together? The fucked up thing is that it's not like things have changed or we fight or anything.. everything is as it has been except for the move...

dumbfounded,
Puff.

Not even gonna read the rest of the thread...she is already fucking someone else. Sorry bro.

I do know some couples that have "taken a break" and then gotten back together, and lived happily ever after...so far. But for the most part, it's the end of an era.

 

[pmumbry]

Ever heard of paraphrasing?

Actually he's gay, part of the reason all us women love him. That and he is a beautiful human being, sexuality aside) Funnily enough, it is a man with no want or need for female attention who possesses all the skill or insight for acquiring it- something you, sir, do not.

He's got style
He's got game
He knows how to treat a lady

And probably has bigger balls than some of these straight dudes who need 'slap a ho' talk to look the part.

and what phrase of mine exactly is he para'ing?

i never said this guy should slap the bitch, all i said is he should throw her ass out onto the street before she gets a chance to dump him, as is clearly her intention.

him being gay explains why he comes off like a little bitch boy (because he is).

you need to learn the difference between a lady, a bitch, and a ho.

A lady has class and doesn't play little games with a mans heart (these are few and far between).

A bitch plays nothing but game, fucking every alpha male in sight, playing games with betas hearts, often using them as sources of babysitting and child support later in life.

A ho turns tricks for money.

 

[OGEvilgenius]

Ok so here it is... and Im sure to be persacuted for what I'm about to say, but in my defence I was never in it to 'score' or take advantage in any way... When we met, years ago now, I was 23 and she told me she was 18... Fine and dandy, the age issue never came up, a year passed. In that time she moved in with me and I layed it out; either you go to school or you get a job... A year later I found out through FB that she was not 18... but 16 turning 17. At this time we've lived together for almost a year.. (yada, yada, you can fill in the details) At this point I'm 'in love'. So her coming from a family that is totaly un-educated and broken no one pushed the school issue..

lol I could go on forever...

Damaged goods. They never make good decisions. She might even love you, but she's going to continue making bad decisions. Let her run away unless you have major league thick skin and a lot of love in your heart - and even then be prepared to accept it will never work out. I'd let her run personally. She's probably cheating on you too.

 

[OGEvilgenius]

My advice is don't let her go alone. As a woman I'd say she is about to deep six the relationship.

I'm sorry but it doesn't look good to me.

Edit: Men should realize that when you play around with young girls that is what it is - play. They like to play house, play wife, play with your life. If you divorce next time get a real grown up woman who is tired of playing games. I'd say hit on a cougar.

Listen to Wonder Woman... er Winter Woman.

 

[RainbowBrite86]

and what phrase of mine exactly is he para'ing?

i never said this guy should slap the bitch, all i said is he should throw her ass out onto the street before she gets a chance to dump him, as is clearly her intention.

him being gay explains why he comes off like a little bitch boy (because he is).

I was going to respond but then I realized I have a strict rule about being mean to retards. So pmum is safe in my ignore box now.

 

[Carne Seca]

and what phrase of mine exactly is he para'ing?

i never said this guy should slap the bitch, all i said is he should throw her ass out onto the street before she gets a chance to dump him, as is clearly her intention.

him being gay explains why he comes off like a little bitch boy (because he is).

you need to learn the difference between a lady, a bitch, and a ho.

A lady has class and doesn't play little games with a mans heart (these are few and far between).

A bitch plays nothing but game, fucking every alpha male in sight, playing games with betas hearts, often using them as sources of babysitting and child support later in life.

A ho turns tricks for money.

The madonna and the whore. Classic. You need therapy, sir. Years and years of it.

 

[RainbowBrite86]

Ok so here it is... and Im sure to be persacuted for what I'm about to say, but in my defence I was never in it to 'score' or take advantage in any way... When we met, years ago now, I was 23 and she told me she was 18... Fine and dandy, the age issue never came up, a year passed. In that time she moved in with me and I layed it out; either you go to school or you get a job... A year later I found out through FB that she was not 18... but 16 turning 17. At this time we've lived together for almost a year.. (yada, yada, you can fill in the details) At this point I'm 'in love'. So her coming from a family that is totaly un-educated and broken no one pushed the school issue..

lol I could go on forever...

Oh wait, i'm sorry. I didn't read this before I answered. Um, no. This is not a woman. This is a child. And this is not the way you love children. No. Bad. Leave it.

 

[rainman36]

If she wanted to be with you,she would,but she doesn't,so let that hoe go,and grow some nuts.I don't know why people cry over spilt milk,you can't make her stay.