Dude, get rid of the chick or go to jail. Trust me. Speaking from sorry fucking experience. The bitch went to grab her gun but I had already hidden them all. The look on her face was almost worth it all when she reached up for it and - NOTHING! Without any details in less than 30 minutes the cops had my ass in a cop car demanding to know where the gun was. I told them but they couldn't find it. I had to be led back in with my kid wailing to point to where it was in a box of stems and seeds. Thought "this is it". Fuckers took the gun, put the box right back where it had come from and took me and the gun to jail. Had to go to "bitch beatin' classes". Every Tuesday at the Battered Womens Shelter - six fucking months every Tuesday no breaks. Pay $50 each class or be arrested. Miss a class and be arrested. Fart in the building and be arrested. That was just that part.
Then there was the arraignment with the $5K criminal defense attorney I hired, then the hearing and then more bullshit and finally I was tried. Found not guilty. No witnesses, no physical evidence (hit her in the fucking guts, if you have to). Plus her 2 DWI's, 2 MVA with injuries and property damage over $25000.00 where she fled the scene to avoid DWI. You get the picture. Didn't stop my misery. Took a year, multiple visits to the courthouse, cops coming to my work to "check on me".
DITCH THE BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!