Home-wreckers.
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Morgan Lynn
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Hi,
My name is Morgan. You probably have a very good idea of who I am. Just for the record, this email is not an attempt to yell at you but it is an attempt to make you realize what you could have done to my family.
Tristan and I have been together for years. I would say about 4 and a few months. Our relationship has been rocky as you probably know and we have gone our separate ways twice. Even though both of those times were my doing, I never allowed Tristan to think I was still in the relationship while “dating” or “kissing and hugging” someone else. You are what I call the “classic home-wrecker”. You have no consideration for other women.
The following should be taken to heart:
1) You do not respect women and their families.
2) You have no consideration for the child involved.
3) You have no consideration for my Uncle or Charlie, who are two of my family members.
4) You have no consideration for Tristan and his job.
5) You do not respect yourself enough to maintain a professional poise at your workplace.
I will not tell anyone about this situation. For one, Tristan needs his job. Tristan works very hard and I believe he deserves to be happy and stay at his job. I also believe you deserve to be happy and remain working your job but this will causes problems for me. Should I trust you? Should I trust Tristan? What do I do in this situation when the woman he cheated on me with is his boss? What would you do? It’s a confusing situation isn’t it? Just plain fucked up if you ask me.
I hope this email doesn’t seem too one sided. Trust me; Tristan got an ear full already. I embraced my inner African American and throughout a few of those typical “baby momma” child support threats. Sounds cliché but what is a woman supposed to say when a situation like this arises? I did, however, remain calm and approached the situation in an adult-like manner.
Tristan claims you two did not sleep together. I believe him. If this is not the truth, I need to know. I cannot continue this relationship with him if that is the case. I was also told that this was only going on for about three and a half weeks. Is that also true? If not, the same scenario will be enforced. I will not be able to continue the relationship with Tristan if he has lied or been with you for more than he has claimed.
Unfortunately, this situation is critical even though it may not look it. I’m trying my best to be a good mother, friend, and eventually wife. Whatever Tristan told you about me is probably true. He probably held a condescending attitude about me as well. I accept that.
I know that I have done wrong by him in the past, but I still do not believe it is appropriate for him to kiss you at work on your “breakfast dates” and then come home and kiss me. He even brushes his teeth with my toothbrush sometimes! The man you were kissing early in the morning had just brushed his teeth with his girlfriend’s toothbrush. You kissed me indirectly.
I’m going to wrap this bullshit up. My main idea for this email was to make you realize what I have realized; that you very well could have destroyed my son’s life. Home-wrecking is a personality flaw some women acquire. I do not blame you. It’s only your nature.
My name is Morgan. You probably have a very good idea of who I am. Just for the record, this email is not an attempt to yell at you but it is an attempt to make you realize what you could have done to my family.
Tristan and I have been together for years. I would say about 4 and a few months. Our relationship has been rocky as you probably know and we have gone our separate ways twice. Even though both of those times were my doing, I never allowed Tristan to think I was still in the relationship while “dating” or “kissing and hugging” someone else. You are what I call the “classic home-wrecker”. You have no consideration for other women.
The following should be taken to heart:
1) You do not respect women and their families.
2) You have no consideration for the child involved.
3) You have no consideration for my Uncle or Charlie, who are two of my family members.
4) You have no consideration for Tristan and his job.
5) You do not respect yourself enough to maintain a professional poise at your workplace.
I will not tell anyone about this situation. For one, Tristan needs his job. Tristan works very hard and I believe he deserves to be happy and stay at his job. I also believe you deserve to be happy and remain working your job but this will causes problems for me. Should I trust you? Should I trust Tristan? What do I do in this situation when the woman he cheated on me with is his boss? What would you do? It’s a confusing situation isn’t it? Just plain fucked up if you ask me.
I hope this email doesn’t seem too one sided. Trust me; Tristan got an ear full already. I embraced my inner African American and throughout a few of those typical “baby momma” child support threats. Sounds cliché but what is a woman supposed to say when a situation like this arises? I did, however, remain calm and approached the situation in an adult-like manner.
Tristan claims you two did not sleep together. I believe him. If this is not the truth, I need to know. I cannot continue this relationship with him if that is the case. I was also told that this was only going on for about three and a half weeks. Is that also true? If not, the same scenario will be enforced. I will not be able to continue the relationship with Tristan if he has lied or been with you for more than he has claimed.
Unfortunately, this situation is critical even though it may not look it. I’m trying my best to be a good mother, friend, and eventually wife. Whatever Tristan told you about me is probably true. He probably held a condescending attitude about me as well. I accept that.
I know that I have done wrong by him in the past, but I still do not believe it is appropriate for him to kiss you at work on your “breakfast dates” and then come home and kiss me. He even brushes his teeth with my toothbrush sometimes! The man you were kissing early in the morning had just brushed his teeth with his girlfriend’s toothbrush. You kissed me indirectly.
I’m going to wrap this bullshit up. My main idea for this email was to make you realize what I have realized; that you very well could have destroyed my son’s life. Home-wrecking is a personality flaw some women acquire. I do not blame you. It’s only your nature.
Morgan Lynn
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wiseguy316
Well-Known Member
On overtime pay at that.
tip top toker
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Sounds like he is equally to blame. What did you say to him, as to me it would seem that both would deserve equal retribution, seems your bloke has no issue with being a homewrecker which is all the more significant seeing it's his home, not the other womans who woulnd't really have anything to lose. Personally i'd have slapped her face one good and propper, and ditched your other half as fast as that, sounds like a rotten apple. I've never personally understood people who are willing to stick with their partner despite them cheating, just rather indicates they don't really give that much of a shit about your feelings.
So how've you acted against your bloke? because a lot of what is in your email can be directly attributed to him as well.
So how've you acted against your bloke? because a lot of what is in your email can be directly attributed to him as well.
DSB65
Well-Known Member
your just adding fuel to the fire...
420God
Well-Known Member
I know, but she needs to realize where the problem is.
BlazedMonkey
Well-Known Member
Sorry to hear this, but people are going to hit on/try to seduce your partner for the rest of your life (applies to everyone) so i think apart from shanking the bitch(joking dont be in jail and miss your childs future) you need to work with him on improving/solidifying your relationship. Sit down and talk with him/possibly see a counselor or something. Otherwise if it was me and you couldnt resolve the issues i would leave him and collect child support :/ I mean like others have said trust is extremely important and i know i couldnt be in a relationship where i knew the other person was cheating on me in any way be it sex or even kissing.
Best of luck, i sincerely hope everything works out for the best for you.
Morgan Lynn
Active Member
Where is the problem?
wiseguy316
Well-Known Member
He is a DB and you need to figure out how best to deal with it.
tip top toker
Well-Known Member
That your bloke had no issue wrecking the home? He's the one you should be thinking about, not simply her, it's not her home so why would she care, it is his, so why doesn't he care? And if there's a child, that seems damned important issue in my mind, that he doesn't care too much about either of yuo.
Dankster4Life
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In his pants girl!!!!!!
420God
Well-Known Member
Or in yours, maybe you're giving a reason for him to wander?
BlazedMonkey
Well-Known Member
Lol slip female hormones into his drinks, because
A. it will shrink the "problem (funny dankster
)
B. make him more compassionate and girly
A. it will shrink the "problem (funny dankster
) B. make him more compassionate and girly
Morgan Lynn
Active Member
He has a smart phone. It was charging while I was inthe computer room finishing up a paper and he recieve a message. I thought it was my sister messaging him so I looked at it... but it wasnt...obviously.
Morgan Lynn
Active Member
I don't see how waking him up with a hand job is a problem I'm having.
420God
Well-Known Member
Use your mouth.