I read through these posts again and I have but one conclusion. I REALLY feel sorry for the male species. I won't say "men" as I am sure based on the sophomoricnature of a few replys that some of you boys aren't old enough to vist the doctor without parental consent. You poor guys, living each day being totally controlled by a limp piece of muscle tissue hanging between your legs...and a pretty grotesque piece of flesh at that. Always thought placement was good, much easier to put a knee into and drop you to the floor as your parts hang out unprotected...an inferior feature without a doubt. Apparently from all of your posts, all males think about is sex. You cannot have a friendship unless it is about sex. You have female friends only because you want to sleep with them. You cannot hang out with women and think about anything but sex. Very sad that you boys will spend your entire lives as dick slaves with the inability to think about anything but sex. You all put yourselves in the same boat so a broad generalization seems appropriate.
So in defense of the "real men" who can think with their brain, who can have female friends they don't have to conquer, who can enjoy all the good things life has to offer, art, literature, history, nature, horticulture, and so much more, YOU ARE APPRECIATED...kick the other sons a bitches in the nuts...they are giving you a bad name.
Give me a break....if you can’t see what this "friend" is trying to do, then you are as blind as the BF letting it happen. Not ALL guys are like this.....but any guy trying to be your girlfriends "buddy" is trying to sleep with her.
If this was a friendship that has been going on for years, they were friends before the current relationship, or they are friends as in couples (he is friends with both the BF and GF)....then that is a whole different story.
But that is not the case here, this is some guy from school trying to make "friends" with a woman in a relationship, and that’s just not cool. There are limits to the friendship with a taken woman, talking and flirting are one thing, and cooking her dinner and going to movies is crossing the line.
I would be kidding myself if I believed my wife doesn’t find other men attractive, and she may even flirt. I know I flirt with a pretty woman if I can, not too much, but after 10 years of marriage it feels good to still be looked at by others.
And I would be a hypocrite to be mad at my wife for doing the same, but if some dude takes her to a movie and makes her dinner, well then I think two people need an ass whoopin just for general principal of the disrespect.
I think this scene sums up my feelings pretty well. I’m sure most men know what this is from.
Vincent: I ain't saying it's right. But you're saying a foot massage don't mean nothing, and I'm saying it does. Now look, I've given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don't, but they do, and that's what's so fucking cool about them. There's a sensuous thing going on where you don't talk about it, but you know it, she knows it, fucking Marsellus knew it, and Antwan should have fucking better known better. I mean, that's his fucking wife, man. He can't be expected to have a sense of humor about that shit. You know what I'm saying?
Jules: That's an interesting point. Come on, let's get into character.
But it is not. It depends, if the woman your dating has a history of cheating then yes, I would be a little bit worried. But on the other hand trust is a major issue, typically if you trust that they wouldn't do something like that they will trust themselves more too.. Communication is a must, but it sucks sometimes. You really nailed it though I have to tel you.
