fabfun
New Member
great post repped
Well I have to agree with others about honesty a woman is always more pissed when she finds out things were witheld most times we feel its still a form of lying I say its your brothers deal and she either is ok with it or she's not she can't expect him to obey her in his own house in the event she doesn't care for it. I know the risks make people want to hide it but when my dad needed a place to live I told him I knew he hated pot but it was my house I grow I sell and I smoke all the time if you want to live there you will have to deal with it needless to say he said hed deal with it and I never had a problem certain people like the one your about to marry you should be able to trust enough to tell things like this to as said tell her its the brothers and if she is uncomfortable and actually finds the room or you in there well that will be easier to deal with imo since she would have had prior knowledge