What shithole do you live in?
Lets do a little math.
100,000 people each year use a gun in self defense.
https://www.npr.org/2018/04/13/602143823/how-often-do-people-use-guns-in-self-defense
40% of adults own at least one gun.
https://wamu.org/story/20/09/18/how-many-people-in-the-u-s-own-guns/
258 million adults in the US. US census
40% of 258 million = 103 million gun owners
100 x 100,000/103,000,000 = .0.09%
Put another way, for every 10,000 gun owners, 9 used a gun in self defense.
So, where do you live? In most places of the US, its extremely rare that a gun owner ever uses a gun in self defense.