My dad is kicking me out help ?

Iloveskywalkerog

Iloveskywalkerog

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So today my dad said he was going to kick me out but my mom doesn't want me to go im 18 so he said he's gonna kick me and my mom out why is this well according to him it's because I don't have a job or go to college he thought all this was because I smoked weed so he restricted me from weed anyway I've been sober for 28 days now and it's just gotten worst I've tried to get many jobs I've had 6 interviews and because I have aspergers syndrome I get very nervous and have problems with interviews and they become very awkward I went to job corps a month ago but got kicked out in the first 4 days for fighting so now I'm stuck any advice ? I also just want to know who's in the wrong me or him all I do is sit in my room and mind my own business I never say anything to him
 
charface

charface

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Get a counsler via the state if need be and keep trying.
after only a month off weed you prolly arent feeling great about the world. All you can fo is your best if he chooses to kick you out then that is his choice.
Any job is a job.
dont aim too high just gind work while you still have a home.
it will be much harder sleeping outside.

On the other hand you must be doing something right.
getting that many interviews in that amount of time is great
 
tytheguy111

tytheguy111

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Iloveskywalkerog said:
So today my dad said he was going to kick me out but my mom doesn't want me to go im 18 so he said he's gonna kick me and my mom out why is this well according to him it's because I don't have a job or go to college he thought all this was because I smoked weed so he restricted me from weed anyway I've been sober for 28 days now and it's just gotten worst I've tried to get many jobs I've had 6 interviews and because I have aspergers syndrome I get very nervous and have problems with interviews and they become very awkward I went to job corps a month ago but got kicked out in the first 4 days for fighting so now I'm stuck any advice ? I also just want to know who's in the wrong me or him all I do is sit in my room and mind my own business I never say anything to him
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learn to weld

its easy and fun and there always looking for welders and if you get certified you can earn like 18 bucks an hour
 
Garden Boss

Garden Boss

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Iloveskywalkerog said:
So today my dad said he was going to kick me out but my mom doesn't want me to go im 18 so he said he's gonna kick me and my mom out why is this well according to him it's because I don't have a job or go to college he thought all this was because I smoked weed so he restricted me from weed anyway I've been sober for 28 days now and it's just gotten worst I've tried to get many jobs I've had 6 interviews and because I have aspergers syndrome I get very nervous and have problems with interviews and they become very awkward I went to job corps a month ago but got kicked out in the first 4 days for fighting so now I'm stuck any advice ?
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1) Find a job. Don't be afraid of physical labor, including sexual. If you can't find work, then you simply aren't looking hard enough.
2) Get your own place. Get something below your means and save up.
3) Grow and sell weed until you can shove that cash stack in your old mans face.
4) Buy your mom a fancy meal and tell her GB says whats up.
 
tytheguy111

tytheguy111

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go to the community collage its like 6 mounts tell him that your doing that and let him know you'll need at least a year to find some welding jobs and get your degree and also get on your feet if you truly loves you hell understand


i just got kicked out even though it was running from the law and im going into welding
 
RB86

RB86

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You could go to a community college. You'd get financial aid, no one is going to drug test you, and you'd have a degree when you finished. You could schedule your classes the way you like for the most part. Make dad happy, make mom proud, keep you busy...win win win.
 
tytheguy111

tytheguy111

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RB86 said:
You could go to a community college. You'd get financial aid, no one is going to drug test you, and you'd have a degree when you finished. You could schedule your classes the way you like for the most part. Make dad happy, make mom proud, keep you busy...win win win.
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thats what i saying lol
 
RB86

RB86

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Oh! Also...Some community colleges do have dorms and the ones that don't usually partner with nearby apartment complexes to offer their students affordable housing.
 
skunkd0c

skunkd0c

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Iloveskywalkerog said:
so he said he's gonna kick me and my mom out
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lol he is going to kick mom out too ?
perhaps you and mom need to get together and hatch a cunning plan
dad is possibly just sick of you and mom taking his money and giving nothing in return

mom is possibly not putting out or dad would not be thinking about throwing her out too
i think mom holds all the cards here
 
SomeGuy

SomeGuy

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Exactly.... WTF do you expect. you are 18, not going to school or working and smoking weed and sitting in your room all day. Your a dumb-shit if you don't know why he is kicking your ass out. You expect your parents to support you forever? Maybe if you did shit around the house to help the old man he wouldnt be as likely to boot you. I bet the LAZY is what is pissing him off with both of you.

Just sayin...

Get a job, go to some sort of school for some training towards a career. Be a man and contribute to the house you live in and I bet your Dad will start being less of an asshole to you and maybe even a bit more helpful.
 
Iloveskywalkerog

Iloveskywalkerog

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SomeGuy said:
Exactly.... WTF do you expect. you are 18, not going to school or working and smoking weed and sitting in your room all day. Your a dumb-shit if you don't know why he is kicking your ass out. You expect your parents to support you forever? Maybe if you did shit around the house to help the old man he wouldnt be as likely to boot you. I bet the LAZY is what is pissing him off with both of you.

Just sayin...

Get a job, go to some sort of school for some training towards a career. Be a man and contribute to the house you live in and I bet your Dad will start being less of an asshole to you and maybe even a bit more helpful.
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Look my dad does not like me we do not have a good relationship you don't think I try I've had 6 interviews and I've applied for a countless number of jobs but the interviews are always extremely awkward to the employer since I have aspergers syndrome
 
RB86

RB86

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Seriously. Enrolling in a community college is very simple. They have people there to help you. It's not like going to a University at all. It's a very relaxed learning environment. Everyone who applies to be a student is accepted. It would probably be a very good experience for you.
 
Iloveskywalkerog

Iloveskywalkerog

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RB86 said:
Seriously. Enrolling in a community college is very simple. They have people there to help you. It's not like going to a University at all. It's a very relaxed learning environment. Everyone who applies to be a student is accepted. It would probably be a very good experience for you.
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I missed the deadline to enroll already
 
charface

charface

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Iloveskywalkerog said:
You guys don't understand my dad does not like me it goes farther than just having a job and all that other stuff I am a burden on him I don't have a good relationship with him I never talk to him he does not like me I can't just go to college
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if dad dont like you you are on your way out.
prepare.
 
tytheguy111

tytheguy111

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Iloveskywalkerog said:
Look my dad does not like me we do not have a good relationship you don't think I try I've had 6 interviews and I've applied for a countless number of jobs but the interviews are always extremely awkward to the employer since I have aspergers syndrome
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oh fuck

yeah my step dad hated my guts


alright well like someone on here said get some money saved up with your mom and move out

maybe get social security for a while until you can find a place that will hire you

fuck man try Walmart or mcy dees i mean you NEED a job if he kicks you out

karma bites and your dad will get whats coming for him

just find some solid source of money if anything start growing and sell
 
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