Mensa, you need to stop looking for a guy who is into growing and smoking....in fact, just stop looking for guys. When you look for a partner you tend not to find one, when you go out and have fun in life, Partners radiate towards you. It really is that simple, people are addicted to other people who are happy and having fun. And as far as stoners go, get a straightoid! 1/ he won't smoke your stash, 2/ straightoids don't flap their gums about their partners grow (because it has little or no interest to them). You get yourself a stoner dude and he'll be bragging about his chicks growing ability, blah blah blah, next thing you know you got problems when you have an argument and he's calling the cops (has happened to a fellow 6'er - come back our friend please!!!). Just my £3.57worth.
Well my hypermobility in my lower back is slowly reducing. Got a really good physio yesterday and have some lower spine curls to do 4-5 times a day (15reps), basically pelvis on the floor, then push yourself up keeping pelvis on the floor. Got a wack of trimming still to do which doesn't boad well though.
Good luck with the new tent bud....fuk me, I hate putting those tents up
slainte, DST