I think humans have sex in both categories. Whether we like it or not people are going to have sex with other people whether they're in love or not. In Korea, sex is for the married, yet there's plenty of love hotels and red districts all around to satisfy outside desires. That isn't right. If you make a promise to love and hold only this one beautiful person, then fucking keep that damn promise. Marriage, even after infatuation and hormones fade you still promised to hold this person close to you. Let's move on the singles now; your body is your own. You are the sole owner of your body and what it does; you are responsible for every action it commits. No one should tell you who you can't have sex with, not even society. I really feel that sex in society is changing for the better in America, but outside this country its a whole different world. In the Arab world, only the women get killed if they have sex or get raped by a man whether their married or not. Sex is about acceptance of either the body or mind and to share a pleasurable experience for both parties. What it really comes down to is pregnancy. Babies are not acceptable part of life outside of marriage for almost all societies. It shouldn't be that way. I think the whole community should celebrate the new life fighting it's way into the world. Shouldn't we be happy? We all won the sperm race why not be happy? We should all be more communal and help each other and enjoy life as it was meant to be. Pregnancy is money and that's why society hates the pregnant teenager. You know what it doesn't matter what I write or say, nothing is going to change unless our whole society and values of every individual change...and that will never happen.
