Kids say the darnedest things....

whitebb2727

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I'm not great with kids but it seems to me that his deep underlying resentment (for whatever reason) is manifesting in a desperation for attention whether it be negative or not.

He seems to be enjoying this attention, regardless of it being negative. Any attention is better than no attention.

Fuck! We should ask @Bradburry. unless of course that's him! He seems about 9! Lol !
Like it was just said. Kids need love, attention, and structure.
You would be surprised what 30 min to hour of direct personal attention to kids will do.
 

sunni

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Hes about to be 9. Hes a master manipulator
as long as you provide good clothing food, shelter, and your grow is legal and locked away like you said i would see no reason as to why child protective services will take him away,
this kinda shit happens all the time,
make sure the house is spotless and pretty, like youre showing it to buyers, dress business casual , make coffee invite worker in provide coffee, and tell your tale.
im sure nothing will happen as long as youre good parents which it sounds like you are.
 

lahadaextranjera

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Like it was just said. Kids need love, attention, and structure.
You would be surprised what 30 min to hour of direct personal attention to kids will do.
I agree. I think this kid needs a bit more one to one time, pref with a psychiatric worker.

I'm not great with kids because I don't have any. However I do remember not threatening to grass my parents up and being rewarding with billions of hamsters! Lol
 

sunni

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Ive worked my ass off trying to rehabilitate them into a normal life. Things were going good. but like I said, he goes to great lengths to get his way. I guess he was pretty upset last night bc we didnt go to jail. Thats just fucked up severe personality disorders imho.
or just being a pissed off 9 year old.
i remember being 6ish when my dad met his current wife, i made life hell for them because i didnt like her. i still dont like her shes a cunt.
kids today pull this kinda shit like its fucking eating candy they really do it all the time, he probably is just having some behavioral issues, maybe after this all blows over your case worker can recommend a social worker to speak with him and work on his issues, or a safe palce where he can talk about his feelings
 

whitebb2727

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or just being a pissed off 9 year old.
i remember being 6ish when my dad met his current wife, i made life hell for them because i didnt like her. i still dont like her shes a cunt.
kids today pull this kinda shit like its fucking eating candy they really do it all the time, he probably is just having some behavioral issues, maybe after this all blows over your case worker can recommend a social worker to speak with him and work on his issues, or a safe palce where he can talk about his feelings
May dad married a woman from China. She was only interested in the green card. She was a bitch.
 

Diabolical666

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Yea hes pissed alright. But he gets to stay at moms for the next few days till CPS comes to investigate. Meanwhile, its video game time, playtime, poor poor Kingston time. I see threw all the bs bc I;ve already raised kids. their parents fall for his bs all the time. They have created a monster. And they have expected me to fix it for them basically. Mom tells us this summer that the little one should be kept behind in school and he needs alot of help getting up to par. So I worked with him and got him there. She laid out in the sun and tended to her rose garden...I wish I could have done that...I was spending all my time with her kids. IM kinda bitter about that tbh.
 

Granny weed

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WE are like broken records with them. WE have talked ourselves blue in the face. But you are correct, this all happened last night and my bf and I talked about it again this morning and i suggested a therapist. Upon googling some of his behaviours they come up psychopathic. yay:(
Oh dear that's doesn't sound good, I wish you well and lots of luck Kids who'd have them :roll:
 

Diabolical666

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My two boys got into the fisty cuffs one day. I got between them and told them that if they ever threw punches at each other again in my house they would be looking for somewhere else to live. My spouse came from a physically abusive home and I clearly stated that the cycle ended there. Diabolical.....I am assuming that talking does nothing? My kids have been given the rules and they just have to operate within.
correct talking does nothing
 

ebgood

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i guess i lucked out. shut the fuck up runs in my family.. im pretty sure my kids got it too
 
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